They probably like their freedom and aren't interested in the Stone-Age notion of marriage that permeates the Indian Culture. Makes sense to me, anyway.Why a lot of Indian women software professionals do not want to get married?
Probably because Indian culture in general is very patriarchal, and they're afraid that once they get married they'll be expected to quit their jobs.
Japan has this problem, as well. The culture is very traditional, even though education is highly valued. So more and more women are opting out of marriage, because marriage and children means their careers are over. More young Japanese women would rather be self-sufficient and USE their intelligence and education instead of throwing it all away to serve a husband and children. And because Japanese work places and Japanese men especially have not changed, the result is that Japan has the lowest birth rate in the industrialized world.
My guess is that the women you work with are the same. Marriage = career death, so they prefer to keep making their own money and living lives the way they want to, just like men have always been able to. The only solution is for your culture to change so that workplaces make allowances for parents, and dads take more responsibility at home so moms can continue to work if they choose.
Maybe they don't want to be Indian men's ';property'; and have a career!
They dont want to get tied with anybody and want to have fun in their life.
but the have lust and sex ambitions..they are cheating themselves
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