What is the point of people getting married when right after one of the spouses cheats?

I've been going through all these questions, and so many spouses seem to cheat on the other. Marriage is more serious then just dating. I just don't understand. I guess its that whole ';have your cake and eat it to';. If you cheated on your spouse, why? and how did it make you feel in the end? I just don't see the point in cheating, it's so disrespectful on all levels. if you're unhappy for a long period of time, get a separation or do something to fix it.What is the point of people getting married when right after one of the spouses cheats?
the real problem is a serious lack of';communication'; if there is a problem put it on the table for discussion...if a couple can't seem to get their point across get a councilor to sit in to smooth thing out. i dont know i think other people dont have respect for marriages these days...people know others are married and would still try to date or have casual sex with married people...thats the problem. i go to clubs and for guys to back off i tell them i am married..u think that line works? NOPE they still try their luckWhat is the point of people getting married when right after one of the spouses cheats?
Are you married or have you ever been married? There are so many different circumstances that play into an affair. None justify cheating but things happen. The hurt and pain it causes. Get a separation or just fix it sounds so easy but there is more involved then that. Most of this mess occurs from couples getting married to young and learn later they have nothing in common. If you don't ever take a chance on marriage with someone you feel is your soul mate for this reason then your going to be the one losing out.
I don't get it either. I've come to the conclusion that most people are a) selfish b) stupid c) not naturally monogamous, yet foolishly try and force themselves into it


as well as d) marriage isn't a great idea





Oh yeah, and most people are massively in love when they get married, and they think ';but MY spouse would never do that'; (except for the ones whose partner cheated during the engagement, and they're just dumb to go ahead with the marriage)
I agree with u on that - some people have their priorities in the wrong place and some people get caught up in a weak moment - and its up to the spouse to 4give - but most people again as you said that many people want their cake and eat it
Everyone isn't that disgusting, though. Sure there are plenty, but not all marriages are like that. For the ones who do it--well, they're trash.