Married?!?!?!?

i have known this guy through my cousin since i've been in 9th grade. my cousin and i have been close for a long time and run into eacother thru mutual friends or party together whenever we call eachother (which is actually like once a month or atleast every other month) but his friend has liked me since the 9th grade!! i was like 15 then, and i am 19 now.


i have not seen his friend in like a year b/c i moved away from my hometown for college, and b/c everytime i go back home he is in halfway house for selling drugs.


i have never kissed this boy, when he tried i said i dont want to kiss him in public (it was at the movies, during the movie) which was a lie, i just didnt know what to say


but yeah ive never done anything with him, never said i liked it him, but he talks about traveling together alot, and he makes it sound like we will get married one day. im only being a friend and he takes it to strange limits.





what should i do?Married?!?!?!?
Be up front and tell him you are not interested in a deeper relationship other than ';just friends';. You don't want a stalker on your hands and you are on the right path going off to collage while his future sounds like it is heading to jail. Perhaps your cousin might help you out by telling the guy too. Don't put yourself in a situation that you will be alone with this guy at anytime.