Do you think it is safe to have an innocent crush on a married coworker?

I've never done anything nor has he %26amp; we never will. I know he won't, most of all, but I admit I'm worried about myself. So far, so good, a year out almost. I've never done anything inappropriate, not at all. Would you advise discontinuing a friendship when you have an innocent crush on a married coworker, when we don't hang out, we just talk a bit %26amp; email somewhat. Thx.Do you think it is safe to have an innocent crush on a married coworker?
I would stop now, it may just get more serious and youll regret it, i would just stop the friendship and the outside of work connection all together. Married men are off limits! think of yourself in the situation, would you want your husband to be emailing and talking to other women coworkers? You will most likely be the one hurt in the end if it gets any more serious.Do you think it is safe to have an innocent crush on a married coworker?
well he clearly doesnt want an outside relationship, or most likely you would know about it by now if he did. You can have an innocent crush, yes, but do remember he IS married, and you really don't want the guilt of anything happening on your head. Not to mention the awkwardness of afterward if anything were to happen. Plus his wife could come and royally ***** you out, which trust me, is HUMILIATING, and would make it hard for you to show your face again since it would be all anyone talked about for a long while.
No, its ok to continue having this crush as long as you do a few things. Establish boundaries and don't cross them, make sure it remains just a crush, and don't allow this crush to hold you back from dating other men. I have had crushes on married co workers, heck I even fantasized about them while I masturbated, but it ended right there. Have fun.
Be careful you are treading on dangerous waters and you are going to be the one that gets hurt here. He's married! Off limits...if it's just friendship then pull your heart out of it. But it never is ';just a friendship'; does his wife know you text and email? If the answer is NO...then you are really, really in dangerous waters. DO NOT FOOL YOURSELF.
Maryjo,





If you don't give up on this it will only get worse. I mean, think about this for a moment. Do you really want to be responsible for being considred a home wrecker just because you want to get your cooch wet?





If the guy is married let it go and move along. It would be in your best interest to just walk away with some self respect.
No. Distance yourself and keep it professional.


It doesnt take much for a crush to become homewrecker and cheater.


Cheating doesnt have to be physical.


Respect his marriage and find yourself a new crush/buddy.


P.S.- Think about why you felt the need to ask this question. Theres your answer.
it's perfectly number.


I suggest you stop talking to him until this innocent crush is over, just to stay on the safe side.





Otherwise it's not bad, perfectly normal. Well, that is until you try to make a move, but yeah back away for a while.
Its good that you understand that you can't do anything because he is married. That being said, an innocent crush can grow into something more if you arent careful. Maintain your friendship, but be careful you dont get hurt!
As long as you don't act on it. But, then what's the use of harboring a crush on someone you can never be with? Move on, it's not worth your or his time.
Of course i will continue to talk with him.If this crush is going beyond what it should then i would stop talking,but here i guess,its not unsafe when you don't really hang out with him or talk to him much!
errr innocent crush will turn into a big crush


im quite sure ur thinking about him everday and the answer is NO


how would you feel if you were married and ur husband had a girl who is crushing in him?


think about others!
Your just looking for trouble leave it alone and go about your own business.If you play with fire long enough someone gets burnt.
As long as you never plan to follow through with your crush, then I think it's merely human nature and innocent.
that innocent part is worrying me already. just drop it girl. in the long run, you won't regret it.
You are wasting your time and his. Move on.
ya u should not talk or mess w/ a married man b cuz he might have a crazy wife n the wife always finds out some how
if it was my husband you'd regret it! u better watch it.