Tuesday, August 24, 2010

I am a married woman being flirted by married man that affected my marriage life. Can I file a law suit?

I am a married woman, volunteer working for non-profit organization. There is a married man, also volunteer working there, he has been flirted me, starting by implying, then he emailed and called me 鈥渉is baby lover';. His acts really affect my marriage life and made my husband very angry. Can this be called: sex harassment and can I sue him and the organization for this matter?I am a married woman being flirted by married man that affected my marriage life. Can I file a law suit?
well stop pretending as if you don;t know what to do! I do not appreciat ethat at all! It is obvious that in order to save your marriage you should leave your workplace TOMORROW(!) and find another job especially since you are just a volunteer there. If you don;t you probably enjoy that flirting and don;t be surprised if it will end your marriage. so forget about that other guy and leave that job immediately. oh my god so obvious. Good LuckI am a married woman being flirted by married man that affected my marriage life. Can I file a law suit?
It depends on the state. It sounds more like harrassment and the most important thing is you need proof to win any lawsuit. Also you need to know if he is worth suing, ie he has assets you can obtain. If the man has nothing you may be wasting your time. A non-profit organization would not have anything to sue for. You may be able to press charges or get a restraining order. Bring it to the attention of the place you volunteer for too, they should put a stop to it. To be sure look up an attorney and see if you an get a free consultation.
Why in the world would you sue the organization? They are not doing this to you. He is. You need to be real and fair about this. First off, send him a response to the email, letting him know that you showed this to your husband and neither of you is happy with his inappropriate behavior. Tell him in no undertain terms that he is to never message you again or to have anything to do with you at your volunteer work. If he doesn't stop, file a restraining order against this bozo, making it illegal for him to be near you, to call you, to text you, to email you or to in any way have any contact with you.
Yes it is sexual harassment. If you ask him to stop and he doesn't it is also stalking. Report his behavior to the organization. They have an obligation to stop him. Give them copies of any unwanted e-mails he has sent you and keep a printed copy for yourself. Find out what there policy is on harassment and make sure it is followed. If they don't take care of it you can report him to the police. You would need to consult a lawyer to determine what your options are beyond that.
Your a volunteer for a cash strapped non-profit and your first thought is to sue? Since your receiving no re numeration and your participation is voluntary why don't you simply find another worthy cause to donate your time? Do you really want to spend large sums of money and a great deal of time on depositions reliving this unpleasant situation in the public eye when simply walking away and going on with your life is so much easier? Can you sue? Sure. Should you? Only you and your husband can answer that.
It was up to you to tell this man to leave you alone. How did he get your e-mail? And even if there was a group e-mail list, for example, you could have blocked him, or got a new email address so he wouldn't be able to email you.





I don't know why you, and so many people would instantly think of the word ';sue';.....do you know what that would involve??? It would involve proving every single thing he's done, you would be asked how did he get your email, and others would be asked if you might have brought some of this behavior on. You had better be prepared. It would get costly too, so isn't it a lot simpler to tell this guy just to buzz off??? Or just tell a supervisor to keep an eye on him, so they can be a witness to his flirting??
come on u hubby needs to get a life i rather have someone look at my husband that means hes worth looking at, comeon now ur taking suing please just go on with ur life at least hes flirting because if none pays u no mind u must be ugly so at least he was flirting u guys need to grow up this is coming from a 40 year old married peson of 14 years just tell the guy i respect ur complement but im all set with my jelous hubby sorry he must not be cute plus u guys have alot of nerve trying to sue a non-profit organization ur basically working for free now u want to get paid wow u must be in ur 20;s
Honestly what really works with unwarranted flirting is to totally embarass him in public. there was this one guy who did the same thing to me at work. innocent flirting, but then he crossed the line by asking me if i ';watch porn.'; i said really loudly ';EW. FIND SOMEONE ELSE TO TALK TO.'; REALLY loudly so everyone heard. then he tried apologizing for it a few days later and I said (again, very loudly) ';Apology accepted but this is the LAST conversation you and I will ever have'; and walked away. he never talked to me again.
Are you looking to win in a lawsuit, or are you looking for the harassment to stop?





You need to take steps, not just run to think of a lawsuit. First off, how did he get your email address? Have you spoken with any manager in the non-profit to tell him to stop? Have you told him to stop?
depends on the state you live in but if you kept the email I think you can sue him. But if you have not told the boss of the organization where you volunteer and give them a chance to rectify the situation I dont think you can sue them
Yes, you can sud him for sex harassment as soon you haven't give him any reason to do so. No one have to hold that situation in any circunstance. That accion is criminal.
That is definitely sexual harassment. You can sue him, but I don't know about the organization. Sexual harassment is a crime.
No. You are tripping.. Cus him out.. Tell him the acceptable forms of communication and keep it moving, You- are whats wrong with todays legal system - everybody wants to sue over nonsense. Oh, and grow a backbone.
Nope, it is not sexual harassment because you let him do that from the beginning. It looks that the lawsuit is only an excuse for you to clean your name. You are a grown woman and you knew what you were doing.
if he has your e-mail address you must like it,you shuoldnt have let it go this far,a man will go as far as the woman lets them,how far did you let him go before you tried to stop it?
You should just had told him from the begining to knock it off. You should just stop volunterring in the organization his in. Change your email. I dont see why you would want to sue him. Just Advoid him at all means
Yes you can sue. Or you can grow up and tell him to shove it. Stop trying to get a free lunch and stand up for yourself like a normal person.
you cant sue him. but you can let the place your working at know about it, and they should, and probaly will either make him stop,or not let him work there anymore.
NO!! Just ask him to stop, tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable and that your husband is upset about it. He will get the hint and leave you alone.
if u wanna get dramatic about it, i suppose, or straight out tell him u don't like him speaking to u that way and if he's mature he'll understand and stop... Sounds like you're looking for an easy buck.
Madam, you are probably encouraging this type of behaviour. I suggest you keep your clothing slightly more demuring and learn to sit with your legs closed.





Good day Madam...
Tell him to knock it off, stay away from him and get on with your life.


I think we are only getting a small fraction of this story.





The things people sue over is ridiculous!!!
The question should be why did you let it get ti that point? How did he get your e-mail address?
Sounds like someone is just looking for extra cash


But by not telling him to stop its just as much your fault as it is his and how did he get your email ? and how did your husband find out ?
Yes, Im pretty sure even on the sole fact that he called you his baby lover.

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