been taking more money out of his taxes bc it still says he is single. Will we be able to get that money back on our tax return?My husband and I got married Nov.2007, but his employer never switched his status in their records so they hav?
All he is doing is pre-paying too much. He should submit a new Form W-4 to his payroll people.My husband and I got married Nov.2007, but his employer never switched his status in their records so they hav?
Yes you'll get it back on a refund. It's your husbands responsibility to update his human resource record when his tax status changes. Maybe you and your husband need to sit down and go over your status changes since you've been married. You should review everything from life insurance to social security accounts to make sure each of you are listed. It's your responsibility to update this stuff as it's not automatically done when they hand you a marriage licenses.
Yes you will. I clam single every year that way they take out more taxes and at the end of the year me and my husband file joint, even though he hasn't worked for awhile. That way you may get it and then some back on your return. It's like putting the extra money into a savings account that you can't touch until tax time.
Yes, you will get it back. Fill out a tax return, you do not have to do anything special, the calculation will automatically show that you overpaid and you will get the refund
Yes, he will get fat refund.
As married person, he can only file as married filing jointly or married filing separately. In most cases, it is better to file as MFJ. Read http://taxipay.blogspot.com/2008/02/fili鈥?/a>
Employers do not do it automatically. Your husband has to fill out a new W4. When you do your taxes it will end with a refund or amount due. You find out by filling out the forms or going to a preparer.
Married or Single just affects how much they withhold. They don't ';report you'; as married or single.. so in effect they're simply withholding too much and since you've overpaid, you get a refund like anyone else who's overpaid.
Yes. It is up to your husband to update his W-4 with the employer.
Saturday, July 31, 2010
How can a person get married to more than one person if its illegal?
I mean dont they keep records and you get denied for a marriage license?How can a person get married to more than one person if its illegal?
I believe they have marriage records only in the state you get married in. And depending on whatever laws for other states you get married in and what they require before you get married, I highly doubt they don't get too investigative into your past that way. So that is why it is likely to get married in different states. You can't necessarily do it in the same state as they would have a record of it in the system already. And besides that having two spouses in the same state could get kind of dicey, especially if they find out about each other.How can a person get married to more than one person if its illegal?
Murder is illegal too, yet people still commit murders.
Of course records are being kept about existing marriages, but what if a previously married person went and got married again in another country? You can't expect the registrar or celebrant to check the records of every country on earth before celebrating a wedding, can you.
You know I was just wondering that haha. I saw polygamists that live in Colorado City and I wondered how they could be polygamists if its illegal to have more than one spouse. I'm not sure if they have common law marriages or if they lie about it. I know they actually have their own community and their own pastors that know they already have a spouse but marry them. The govt cant attack a whole community because too many people involved but they are starting to charge them with child molestation because they marry their daughters off at 13-15.
I don't know where you got the idea records are not kept. A marriage license is a public record that anyone can look up as is a divorce. You may not get denied until they catch up with you or someone looks it up for themselves and reports you. Sooner or later someone will find out. It;s not that hard.
Honey, being married to one person is a headache enough, so why put yourself through a migraine with wanting more than one spouse?
Legally, no.
However some religions practice it.
I believe they have marriage records only in the state you get married in. And depending on whatever laws for other states you get married in and what they require before you get married, I highly doubt they don't get too investigative into your past that way. So that is why it is likely to get married in different states. You can't necessarily do it in the same state as they would have a record of it in the system already. And besides that having two spouses in the same state could get kind of dicey, especially if they find out about each other.How can a person get married to more than one person if its illegal?
Murder is illegal too, yet people still commit murders.
Of course records are being kept about existing marriages, but what if a previously married person went and got married again in another country? You can't expect the registrar or celebrant to check the records of every country on earth before celebrating a wedding, can you.
You know I was just wondering that haha. I saw polygamists that live in Colorado City and I wondered how they could be polygamists if its illegal to have more than one spouse. I'm not sure if they have common law marriages or if they lie about it. I know they actually have their own community and their own pastors that know they already have a spouse but marry them. The govt cant attack a whole community because too many people involved but they are starting to charge them with child molestation because they marry their daughters off at 13-15.
I don't know where you got the idea records are not kept. A marriage license is a public record that anyone can look up as is a divorce. You may not get denied until they catch up with you or someone looks it up for themselves and reports you. Sooner or later someone will find out. It;s not that hard.
Honey, being married to one person is a headache enough, so why put yourself through a migraine with wanting more than one spouse?
Legally, no.
However some religions practice it.
I am 31 year newly married and want to get conceived. What should be done for this?
Please let me know the most favorable period in a month to get conceived.I am 31 year newly married and want to get conceived. What should be done for this?
I think that maybe english isn't your first language. The best time to fall pregnant is when you are ovulating, if you have a 28 day cycle, then this should be around day 14. From the first day of your period, count that as number 1, then keep counting, you should have sex daily from day 10 to 15. Good LuckI am 31 year newly married and want to get conceived. What should be done for this?
This is brilliant.
Maybe you could clarify your question?
you need fertilaid... maybe ur husbands sperm count is a little low.. maybe you two just need vitamins... look at this website..
www.fertilaid.comfacial
I think that maybe english isn't your first language. The best time to fall pregnant is when you are ovulating, if you have a 28 day cycle, then this should be around day 14. From the first day of your period, count that as number 1, then keep counting, you should have sex daily from day 10 to 15. Good LuckI am 31 year newly married and want to get conceived. What should be done for this?
This is brilliant.
Maybe you could clarify your question?
you need fertilaid... maybe ur husbands sperm count is a little low.. maybe you two just need vitamins... look at this website..
www.fertilaid.com
If you file your taxes ';Married, filing seperatly, do you need your spouces social security number?
We are seperated %26amp; she is not cooperative in this process.If you file your taxes ';Married, filing seperatly, do you need your spouces social security number?
If you file as married filing separately, you can use Form 1040A or Form 1040. Select this filing status by checking the box on line 3 of either form. You also must enter your spouse's full name in the space provided and must enter your spouse's SSN or ITIN in the space provided unless your spouse does not have and is not required to have an SSN or ITIN. Use the Married filing separately column of the Tax Table or Section C of the Tax Computation Worksheet to figure your tax.If you file your taxes ';Married, filing seperatly, do you need your spouces social security number?
no you wont need her information as long as you file married filing seperate
Yes, you have to have your spouse's SSN to file MFS. However, if you and she seperated before June 30th of last year, and didn't live together at all after that date, for tax purposes you can be considered ';unmarried'; and use the single filing status. Then you don't need her SSN.
Yes, the spouse's ss# has to go on your return.
If you have filed a joint return in the past, the number will be on that return. If you don't have a copy you can request a transcript from the IRS - you don't need a full copy. See http://www.irs.gov/taxtopics/tc156.html
yes
Yes you will need her number. If she will not provide it and you canot get it from an old tax return you can either file your return with a statement attached that she refused to give you the number.
If you paid a tax preparer to file your taxes in the past they will have her number on an old return. You can also ask the IRS for a transcript of your old return which wil have her number. You can fax the request to the IRS and get the transcript within a week or two.
You cannot file the single status even if your spouse did not live with you the last six months of the year. You may be able to file head of household but you would have to have a qualifying chld and paid more than half of the up keep of a home for the year.
If you file as married filing separately, you can use Form 1040A or Form 1040. Select this filing status by checking the box on line 3 of either form. You also must enter your spouse's full name in the space provided and must enter your spouse's SSN or ITIN in the space provided unless your spouse does not have and is not required to have an SSN or ITIN. Use the Married filing separately column of the Tax Table or Section C of the Tax Computation Worksheet to figure your tax.If you file your taxes ';Married, filing seperatly, do you need your spouces social security number?
no you wont need her information as long as you file married filing seperate
Yes, you have to have your spouse's SSN to file MFS. However, if you and she seperated before June 30th of last year, and didn't live together at all after that date, for tax purposes you can be considered ';unmarried'; and use the single filing status. Then you don't need her SSN.
Yes, the spouse's ss# has to go on your return.
If you have filed a joint return in the past, the number will be on that return. If you don't have a copy you can request a transcript from the IRS - you don't need a full copy. See http://www.irs.gov/taxtopics/tc156.html
yes
Yes you will need her number. If she will not provide it and you canot get it from an old tax return you can either file your return with a statement attached that she refused to give you the number.
If you paid a tax preparer to file your taxes in the past they will have her number on an old return. You can also ask the IRS for a transcript of your old return which wil have her number. You can fax the request to the IRS and get the transcript within a week or two.
You cannot file the single status even if your spouse did not live with you the last six months of the year. You may be able to file head of household but you would have to have a qualifying chld and paid more than half of the up keep of a home for the year.
What movie in the 80s/90s depicted a boy who's father married some monster, which was hurt by violin music?
The kid got the violin trick out of a comic book in the movie.What movie in the 80s/90s depicted a boy who's father married some monster, which was hurt by violin music?
Sounds like Stepmonster (1993).
Sounds like Stepmonster (1993).
Should you forgive your husband of having an affair? We have been married 20 years and I don't know what to do?
I just don't know if I can forgive him and let us get on with our lives. He knows he made a mistake and wants to make it right. We only have 1 child and he supports me on whatever I do. Should you forgive your husband of having an affair? We have been married 20 years and I don't know what to do?
This is a tough one and unfortunately it happens way too much.
Do you think your husband is sincere and will never do this again?
Also it should depends on how long this has been happening. Was it a one time deal or something that's been happening for years without your knowledge? Every one makes mistakes. Put yourself in his shoes...would you want him to forgive you?
I would not rush to a decision. Take your time and consider everything.
Should you forgive your husband of having an affair? We have been married 20 years and I don't know what to do?
It probably feels like either decision you make will be the wrong one. You might need some time alone to just let your feelings settle for a few moments. You can either choose to leave the house and stay temporarily in a motel or he can. Either way, you just need a little bit of time to think through things.
It's not going to be an easy thing to forgive, but you have to ask yourself some very serious questions. I would suggest getting counseling for yourself at first, and then eventually he can join you.
To me, it would also depend on how long the affair lasted and who it was with. If it was with my friend or family member, that would be completely unforgivable. With some random stranger would be the most forgivable...it all just depends on the situation. No matter who or for how long, it's not going to be easy--but if it's something you think you can eventually work through, then give him the chance to make things up to you as best you can.
Good luck!!!
I think you need to sit down and be brutally honest with yourself. Do a list of all the positive things for the future and all the negative things for the future and whatever list has the biggest input is the one you should follow. Make sure you cover everything like finances, feelings, kids etc and take your time. Do not rush into anything because you are probably full of mixed emotions at the moment and it won't hurt your husband to sit and wait around. He knows what he has done, so that is almost punishment enough. Good luck and remember to look after yourself and your child.
You're in a very tough situation... What he did was wrong and hurtful towards you. This is something that your ultimately going to have to make a decision on. You have been married for a very long time and you have a child. A marriage is something that your suppose to try everything to make it work before walking away from it. The trust is definately gone and he will have to earn it again which won't be easy. Without trust there's nothing. Although it might be esay for people to say just leave the marriage, i also understand that there's alot in stake for you. Maybe you should take some time apart and think things through. Whatever you do be sure he learns not to ever take you for granted.
Good Luck.
Can you answer the question about how much time you two have invested in your marriage up to this point? Depends on how much you love him after all these years together and since it's been that long, your child is fairly old by now so it shouldn't impact the child that much if you two split up; even if it's only for a short time or for good, and since he's always supported you in whatever you want to do in life, you need to decide if your willing to do the same with him? If you do forgive him, you need to sit and have a long talk with him that forgiveness is not forgetting and that it will take you a long time to get past that.
You are the only one that can answer that. If you can forgive him, do it. But don't live a life where you are constantly reminding him of his mistake or one in which you are constantly worried about him being unfaithful again. Many people do forgive their mates and go on to have happy, fulfilled lives. Forgive him, if you truly can, and go on.
If you can't forgive him, then he will always feel you are punishing him and he will never get over the guilt, that's if he really feels any.
I would see a marriage counsellor. Make it very clear to your husband that you are giving him a second chance and if he ever cheats on you again, he won't get another chance, the marriage is over.
Tell him that breaking your marriage vows and cheating on you, is very painful for you and with the help of a counsellor you will try very hard to forgive him and he will have to try even harder to earn your trust again.
I have always believe that once a cheater, always a cheater, but....there are a few men out there that learn their lesson and realize they almost lost the most important woman in their life, their wife and have come to realize that no woman out there is worth losing a 20 year marriage and a good wife.
Don't forget the signs of a cheating husband and if some day you suspect he is up to no good again, then do your homework and get proof that he is cheating, then be a strong woman and keep your promise. He cheated again, so the marriage is over.
If you honestly feel you can never get over the pain of him being with another woman or you aren't really sure that he wouldn't go out and cheat on you again, then it's better to end the marriage now.
My ex cheated on me and he begged me to forgive him, give him another chance and promised me he would never do it again. So that's exactly what I did. He took this as a sign of weakness on my part and easy for him to manipulate. So ofcourse, he turned right around and cheated on me again. When I asked him, if you want to be with other women, then why didn't you just leave after the first one? Why did beg me to give him another chance and then just turn around and cheat on me again. His answer was....because I can! He figured since I was foolish enough to forgive him after the first time, I would forgive him again. He knew I was angry and going to kick him to the curb (which I did) and he laughed and said if you ever cheated on me with some guy, I would have kicked you out on the street with only the clothes on your back.
Yes my EX was a total jerk and a lot of other rotten things, but hopefully your husband is just stupid and learned his lesson.
Unfortunately I believe that if he was truly sorry and ';wants to make it right'; he would have not done it to begin with. Was it a relationship affair or a one night.? And how old is the child. I think you need to ask yourself why you would still want to be with a man who has slept with another woman. Yes you may love him, but if someone is truly in love with someone else wouold they sleep with another person other than their spouse? Likely not :( Recently a friends husband had an affair(not just a one time thing) her husband begged to come back she thought he was sincere...... but he also stood to loose alot financially, not convinced he wanted to make it work for thye right reasons...... something to think about.
Good luck and please think about counseling to work though your questions. Good luck :)
it is a very hard decision to make. BUT you are the only person that can make that decision. at one occasion i had a problem that offended my person and i did not no if i should forgive that person i wanted some body to tell me what to do. then I read a book named ';The four agreement';, made up my mind, and thought, ';i am the only person to decide if i forgive or not, i can not be mad just because someone tells me not to forgive that person.'; so i did and it feels great! I don't hate anybody that surrounds me. If don't like the way they are, i just don't visit or call them too often.
I used to always say that if someone cheated on me that would be the end no questions asked. Now that I have children and a home and all that I wonder if it were to happen if it would be worth trying to work it out.
I think that there are people who go on to have good relationships again but I would think it would take years of hard work.
For me I really believe in the whole ';once a cheater always a cheater'; saying. So I think that I would be constantly in doubt about my partner and would never be able to truly forgive. So for me I don't think I could get to a place where I could move past the cheating.
However everyone is different. I just want to say I am so, so sorry for you. I have been married for seven years and my world would be upside down if this happened to me. Not to mention I'd be totally heartbroken.
I wish you the best in whatever road you take.
it pains me to know that after 20 years he choose to hurt you by having an affair.pardon the word choose but man knows the consequences that can happen once they had an affair and it really puzzles me why they still engage themselves in it.is this the first time ?did he admit his mistakes?(it's differenrt from knowing his mistakes)did he promise never do do it again?the most important thing.if he still loves you and willing to settle your differences to make your love more stronger.if the answer is yes and he is sincere in his action.you have to give him a chance to prove himself.if you choose to give him a chance please don't linger on the subject anymore.
much depends on you,
if you feel with counseling you can in time forgive , then go ahead, but GET THE COUNSELING .
the other matter is , is he TRULY sorry or just sorry he got caught.
I counsel 10 or more couples a week on this, trust will take time and effort. Both of you must put effort into the counseling, but it still will take time.
Only you know your heart and what you want or are willing to loose.
try the counseling before deciding.
I would not be able to forgive him! You both made a vow when you got married and he broke that vow! To picture my husband having sex with another woman makes me sick! I can't even imagine how hard this is for you! I would make him go to marriage counsling! You know your husband better then anyone would he do it again? How long did it last for? Was it a one night stand? Or did it go on for a while? It would take a LONG time to forgive him if I ever could?!?!?
Good luck sweetie! I'm SO sorry this happened to you both!
There is no way we can answer this for you. You can forgive him today and then years later decide that the affair simply did too much damage. Listen to your intuition, take your time, and choose wisely, remembering we only have one life to live and you deserve to be happy and respected.
Well since you don't know what to do I suggest first trying out marriage counseling and see where that gets you. If it doesn't seem to be working and you just can't seem to forgive him then you need to separate until you can work it out or if you can't then divorce.
It is so hard for any of us to tell you what you 'should' do. We are not witnessing his sorrow...his apology...as you are. You are really on your own with this one. Live one day at a time and see how you feel. Do you still enjoy his company, knowing what he has done? Are you satisfied with his explanation of why he did what he did? Has he promised never to have any contact with this woman again? Is she on his job or other place that they cannot avoid contact?
SEE, SO MANY VARIABLES, AND THE MOST IMPORTANT ONE IS DO YOU STILL WANT HIM IN YOUR LIFE....THEN TRY TO MAKE A GO OF IT. If you loose the picture in your mind of him with another woman, when he holds you, then you are on the road to recovery. It will require him to be cconsistent and unwavering to make you feel secure. Good Luck.
Only you can answer that question. It's hard to forget the pain and betrayal. If he has no problem giving a moment to moment guideline to his daily activities, then I would say that he is sincere in his wanting forgiveness. Trust has to be earned again.
If you love him and he really feels bad then give him 1 more chance but that is it. The only problem is you will always have it in the back of your mind of how could he of betrayed our child and I like that.
You might be able to forgive him - but honestly can you forget ? That is the hard part. Maybe if he really tries to be a loving husband, you may make it. But it will be you who does the suffering.Is he worth it ?
If you decide to give him another chance, you'll need to seek counseling. You won't be able to overcome infidelity on your own. It's just too much to handle ourselves.
Only forgive him if he understands at any time you want check up on him. Let him know you can forgive and forget. You just can't do both at the same time.Trust well be hard to come by from now on.
Read, ';why men cheat'; - its a good book
Its helped me deal with my husband having an emotional affair.
This is a tough one and unfortunately it happens way too much.
Do you think your husband is sincere and will never do this again?
Also it should depends on how long this has been happening. Was it a one time deal or something that's been happening for years without your knowledge? Every one makes mistakes. Put yourself in his shoes...would you want him to forgive you?
I would not rush to a decision. Take your time and consider everything.
Should you forgive your husband of having an affair? We have been married 20 years and I don't know what to do?
It probably feels like either decision you make will be the wrong one. You might need some time alone to just let your feelings settle for a few moments. You can either choose to leave the house and stay temporarily in a motel or he can. Either way, you just need a little bit of time to think through things.
It's not going to be an easy thing to forgive, but you have to ask yourself some very serious questions. I would suggest getting counseling for yourself at first, and then eventually he can join you.
To me, it would also depend on how long the affair lasted and who it was with. If it was with my friend or family member, that would be completely unforgivable. With some random stranger would be the most forgivable...it all just depends on the situation. No matter who or for how long, it's not going to be easy--but if it's something you think you can eventually work through, then give him the chance to make things up to you as best you can.
Good luck!!!
I think you need to sit down and be brutally honest with yourself. Do a list of all the positive things for the future and all the negative things for the future and whatever list has the biggest input is the one you should follow. Make sure you cover everything like finances, feelings, kids etc and take your time. Do not rush into anything because you are probably full of mixed emotions at the moment and it won't hurt your husband to sit and wait around. He knows what he has done, so that is almost punishment enough. Good luck and remember to look after yourself and your child.
You're in a very tough situation... What he did was wrong and hurtful towards you. This is something that your ultimately going to have to make a decision on. You have been married for a very long time and you have a child. A marriage is something that your suppose to try everything to make it work before walking away from it. The trust is definately gone and he will have to earn it again which won't be easy. Without trust there's nothing. Although it might be esay for people to say just leave the marriage, i also understand that there's alot in stake for you. Maybe you should take some time apart and think things through. Whatever you do be sure he learns not to ever take you for granted.
Good Luck.
Can you answer the question about how much time you two have invested in your marriage up to this point? Depends on how much you love him after all these years together and since it's been that long, your child is fairly old by now so it shouldn't impact the child that much if you two split up; even if it's only for a short time or for good, and since he's always supported you in whatever you want to do in life, you need to decide if your willing to do the same with him? If you do forgive him, you need to sit and have a long talk with him that forgiveness is not forgetting and that it will take you a long time to get past that.
You are the only one that can answer that. If you can forgive him, do it. But don't live a life where you are constantly reminding him of his mistake or one in which you are constantly worried about him being unfaithful again. Many people do forgive their mates and go on to have happy, fulfilled lives. Forgive him, if you truly can, and go on.
If you can't forgive him, then he will always feel you are punishing him and he will never get over the guilt, that's if he really feels any.
I would see a marriage counsellor. Make it very clear to your husband that you are giving him a second chance and if he ever cheats on you again, he won't get another chance, the marriage is over.
Tell him that breaking your marriage vows and cheating on you, is very painful for you and with the help of a counsellor you will try very hard to forgive him and he will have to try even harder to earn your trust again.
I have always believe that once a cheater, always a cheater, but....there are a few men out there that learn their lesson and realize they almost lost the most important woman in their life, their wife and have come to realize that no woman out there is worth losing a 20 year marriage and a good wife.
Don't forget the signs of a cheating husband and if some day you suspect he is up to no good again, then do your homework and get proof that he is cheating, then be a strong woman and keep your promise. He cheated again, so the marriage is over.
If you honestly feel you can never get over the pain of him being with another woman or you aren't really sure that he wouldn't go out and cheat on you again, then it's better to end the marriage now.
My ex cheated on me and he begged me to forgive him, give him another chance and promised me he would never do it again. So that's exactly what I did. He took this as a sign of weakness on my part and easy for him to manipulate. So ofcourse, he turned right around and cheated on me again. When I asked him, if you want to be with other women, then why didn't you just leave after the first one? Why did beg me to give him another chance and then just turn around and cheat on me again. His answer was....because I can! He figured since I was foolish enough to forgive him after the first time, I would forgive him again. He knew I was angry and going to kick him to the curb (which I did) and he laughed and said if you ever cheated on me with some guy, I would have kicked you out on the street with only the clothes on your back.
Yes my EX was a total jerk and a lot of other rotten things, but hopefully your husband is just stupid and learned his lesson.
Unfortunately I believe that if he was truly sorry and ';wants to make it right'; he would have not done it to begin with. Was it a relationship affair or a one night.? And how old is the child. I think you need to ask yourself why you would still want to be with a man who has slept with another woman. Yes you may love him, but if someone is truly in love with someone else wouold they sleep with another person other than their spouse? Likely not :( Recently a friends husband had an affair(not just a one time thing) her husband begged to come back she thought he was sincere...... but he also stood to loose alot financially, not convinced he wanted to make it work for thye right reasons...... something to think about.
Good luck and please think about counseling to work though your questions. Good luck :)
it is a very hard decision to make. BUT you are the only person that can make that decision. at one occasion i had a problem that offended my person and i did not no if i should forgive that person i wanted some body to tell me what to do. then I read a book named ';The four agreement';, made up my mind, and thought, ';i am the only person to decide if i forgive or not, i can not be mad just because someone tells me not to forgive that person.'; so i did and it feels great! I don't hate anybody that surrounds me. If don't like the way they are, i just don't visit or call them too often.
I used to always say that if someone cheated on me that would be the end no questions asked. Now that I have children and a home and all that I wonder if it were to happen if it would be worth trying to work it out.
I think that there are people who go on to have good relationships again but I would think it would take years of hard work.
For me I really believe in the whole ';once a cheater always a cheater'; saying. So I think that I would be constantly in doubt about my partner and would never be able to truly forgive. So for me I don't think I could get to a place where I could move past the cheating.
However everyone is different. I just want to say I am so, so sorry for you. I have been married for seven years and my world would be upside down if this happened to me. Not to mention I'd be totally heartbroken.
I wish you the best in whatever road you take.
it pains me to know that after 20 years he choose to hurt you by having an affair.pardon the word choose but man knows the consequences that can happen once they had an affair and it really puzzles me why they still engage themselves in it.is this the first time ?did he admit his mistakes?(it's differenrt from knowing his mistakes)did he promise never do do it again?the most important thing.if he still loves you and willing to settle your differences to make your love more stronger.if the answer is yes and he is sincere in his action.you have to give him a chance to prove himself.if you choose to give him a chance please don't linger on the subject anymore.
much depends on you,
if you feel with counseling you can in time forgive , then go ahead, but GET THE COUNSELING .
the other matter is , is he TRULY sorry or just sorry he got caught.
I counsel 10 or more couples a week on this, trust will take time and effort. Both of you must put effort into the counseling, but it still will take time.
Only you know your heart and what you want or are willing to loose.
try the counseling before deciding.
I would not be able to forgive him! You both made a vow when you got married and he broke that vow! To picture my husband having sex with another woman makes me sick! I can't even imagine how hard this is for you! I would make him go to marriage counsling! You know your husband better then anyone would he do it again? How long did it last for? Was it a one night stand? Or did it go on for a while? It would take a LONG time to forgive him if I ever could?!?!?
Good luck sweetie! I'm SO sorry this happened to you both!
There is no way we can answer this for you. You can forgive him today and then years later decide that the affair simply did too much damage. Listen to your intuition, take your time, and choose wisely, remembering we only have one life to live and you deserve to be happy and respected.
Well since you don't know what to do I suggest first trying out marriage counseling and see where that gets you. If it doesn't seem to be working and you just can't seem to forgive him then you need to separate until you can work it out or if you can't then divorce.
It is so hard for any of us to tell you what you 'should' do. We are not witnessing his sorrow...his apology...as you are. You are really on your own with this one. Live one day at a time and see how you feel. Do you still enjoy his company, knowing what he has done? Are you satisfied with his explanation of why he did what he did? Has he promised never to have any contact with this woman again? Is she on his job or other place that they cannot avoid contact?
SEE, SO MANY VARIABLES, AND THE MOST IMPORTANT ONE IS DO YOU STILL WANT HIM IN YOUR LIFE....THEN TRY TO MAKE A GO OF IT. If you loose the picture in your mind of him with another woman, when he holds you, then you are on the road to recovery. It will require him to be cconsistent and unwavering to make you feel secure. Good Luck.
Only you can answer that question. It's hard to forget the pain and betrayal. If he has no problem giving a moment to moment guideline to his daily activities, then I would say that he is sincere in his wanting forgiveness. Trust has to be earned again.
If you love him and he really feels bad then give him 1 more chance but that is it. The only problem is you will always have it in the back of your mind of how could he of betrayed our child and I like that.
You might be able to forgive him - but honestly can you forget ? That is the hard part. Maybe if he really tries to be a loving husband, you may make it. But it will be you who does the suffering.Is he worth it ?
If you decide to give him another chance, you'll need to seek counseling. You won't be able to overcome infidelity on your own. It's just too much to handle ourselves.
Only forgive him if he understands at any time you want check up on him. Let him know you can forgive and forget. You just can't do both at the same time.Trust well be hard to come by from now on.
Read, ';why men cheat'; - its a good book
Its helped me deal with my husband having an emotional affair.
Is there any virtual gamaes on the internet that you can get married and start a family?
I've noticed there are lots of virtual chat rooms, but I want one that you can have a house, boyfriend (husband), pets, land, children etc. Life real life.Is there any virtual gamaes on the internet that you can get married and start a family?
You can its sims 1-5 you can get kids have pets in differnt sims you can have pets get a job just look it up on google Peace From Xbox360needsIs there any virtual gamaes on the internet that you can get married and start a family?
virtual families just go to http://rds.yahoo.com/_ylt=A0geu5wvrxFLzn鈥?/a>
You can its sims 1-5 you can get kids have pets in differnt sims you can have pets get a job just look it up on google Peace From Xbox360needsIs there any virtual gamaes on the internet that you can get married and start a family?
virtual families just go to http://rds.yahoo.com/_ylt=A0geu5wvrxFLzn鈥?/a>
My best friend Is getting married at the H 10 hotel in mexico?
We are in need of any advice from a bride or groom who went through the same experience. Also if you have attended a wedding there any comments or advice is welcomed. Apparentley the language barrier is more of a problem then we expected from a large resort.My best friend Is getting married at the H 10 hotel in mexico?
Make sure you stop by the book store and get a english / spanish dictionary.
There really is a hotel called H 10 ?
Ive attended a wedding and my advice is never hit on the bride. Keep all your clothes on. Dont buy the preacher drinks or hit on his wife. Dont wear camaflouge.The reception is not a buffet. Dont ask the DJ to play - Lets get drunk and screw.Leave removing the garter to the groom.Know when your about to throw up and plan accordingly.
There really is a large resort that is named H 10.....HHHMMMMy best friend Is getting married at the H 10 hotel in mexico?
If you want to getting married at Mexico city, then it is better for you that you should have first find out the best hotels in Mexico. Because you can arrange marriage party %26amp; enjoy marriage life in Best Hotels in Mexico. If you want to know details of hotel booking related information you can visit the site www.stayresmexico.com, where you can get all information regarding this. I hope it maybe helpfull for you.
My advice........don't get Married!!!!
just kidding.......
In that kind of Hotels there are somebody who attend that kind of events and surely speak english, ask for him or her, if you be specific, they will try to help you.
try this http://www.h10hotels.com/cas/index.php
congratulations to your friend
Make sure you stop by the book store and get a english / spanish dictionary.
There really is a hotel called H 10 ?
Ive attended a wedding and my advice is never hit on the bride. Keep all your clothes on. Dont buy the preacher drinks or hit on his wife. Dont wear camaflouge.The reception is not a buffet. Dont ask the DJ to play - Lets get drunk and screw.Leave removing the garter to the groom.Know when your about to throw up and plan accordingly.
There really is a large resort that is named H 10.....HHHMMMMy best friend Is getting married at the H 10 hotel in mexico?
If you want to getting married at Mexico city, then it is better for you that you should have first find out the best hotels in Mexico. Because you can arrange marriage party %26amp; enjoy marriage life in Best Hotels in Mexico. If you want to know details of hotel booking related information you can visit the site www.stayresmexico.com, where you can get all information regarding this. I hope it maybe helpfull for you.
My advice........don't get Married!!!!
just kidding.......
In that kind of Hotels there are somebody who attend that kind of events and surely speak english, ask for him or her, if you be specific, they will try to help you.
try this http://www.h10hotels.com/cas/index.php
congratulations to your friend
Why do gays fight so hard to get the right to get married?
They already have the freedom to have their ';relationships'; in the privacy of their own homes. Also, they have their freedom to gross everyone out with their perverted, godless, lifestyles. Yesterday, I was in Wal-Mart, and I saw two guys holding hands. Sick!
So why do they need us to redefine the definition of marriage just to suit their lifestyle, which God's Word has defined as an abomination?Why do gays fight so hard to get the right to get married?
I sense that you have a few gay tendencies yourself, otherwise you wouldn't feel the need to bash people who are doing nothing but living their lives as they wish and following their hearts.
As George Carlin said (wise man, R.I.P) about the homophobia that so many men harbor, ';It isn't the queer outside they fear, but the queer within.';Why do gays fight so hard to get the right to get married?
You don't really want an answer to this question, do you? You just wanted to get your own opinion on the issue out there.
Nevertheless, here's my answer. I can't really speak for any gay people out there, but I assume they want to get married for the same reasons heterosexual couples do - for example, because they are in love, they want to share their happiness with friends and family, they want to demonstrate their commitment to the world by taking vows to love and honour that person for the rest of their life.
I am not gay myself, but I do not find the idea of men holding hands in any way offensive, and can't fathom what is 'sick' about it.
Also, you may have noticed that not everyone is a Christian. Those that aren't probably don't much care if ';God's Word'; defines their relationship as an abomination or not. Of course it's possible to be gay and consider yourself a Christian (though I'm sure you would feel the two are mutually exclusive) - in which case I suppose you would probably assume something like A) God is forgiving or B) maybe homophobic church leaders have warped ';God's Word'; to their own ends or C) whatever the hell you want to assume that allows you to live your life the way you want.
Looking forward to all the thumbs down from your intolerant brethren!
What difference does it make to you whether they can marry or not? How is it personally affecting you?
Answer: It's not.
And now I invite you to compare the ratio of the number of verses in the New Testament condemning homosexuality to the number of verses in the New Testament condemning Christians who presume to judge non-Christians. You might be surprised.
Hint: Matthew 7.
God's word defined it as an ';abomination'; in Leviticus, right next to prohibitions against wearing fabrics of mixed fibers, eating shellfish, and explanations of the proper way to sell your daughter into slavery. Please do some reading on your own and try to be intelligent about this.
That's not the main question. The main question is, why do radical conservatives and extremist fundamentalists fight so hard to twist God's word into political oppression that keeps citizens from having the same legal rights as heterosexuals.
All gay people want is equal rights under the law. You conservatives seem to think you're the only ones entitled to marriage.
Gays are denied rights afforded to heterosexuals, such as inheritance and hospital visitation rights in the event of unconsciousness.
it's fine to suggest that homosexual acts are an abomination (if a bit bigoted), but what you don't seem to understand is that basing legislation on religious beliefs is fine, as long as YOUR religious perspective is in the majority. What happens to Christianity when Muslims form a majority in the US and they want to ban Christians trying to convert other people in the US, the way it's illegal in other countries. Then, suddenly, basing laws on religious convictions doesn't seem like such a good idea, does it?
They want to make sincere declarations of the love and trust they hold for their spouse and they want them to be recognised the same way that those declarations love between a man and a women are recognised.
I cannot argue against that, to do so is to bring tragedy(Even in the Shakespearean sense) upon your fellow man, something I cannot do with a clean conscience.
I am not religious, or homosexual but that is what I think.
For the same reason interracial couples did.
Do you believe that because your specific religion forbids something it should be outlawed?
YOUR RELIGION DOES NOT APPLY TO EVERYONE.
If you want to restrict the freedoms of others based on your beliefs, you oppose religious freedom. You're evil. You're no different that somebody whose barbaric religion forbids, say, interracial marriage and is not satisfied with not practicing it himself, but wants to prevent everybody else - even non-believers - from being allowed to do as they choose.
You're the reason christians are hated and despised.
P.S. Interracial marriage wasn't legal in all 50 states until 2000, because of people like you.
First of all, not everyone follows ';God's word';. This country shouldn't be biased to the beliefs of one religion, especially since not everyone follows it. Gay people fight for the right to get married because they are in love and deserve the same rights as straight couples.
You seem to be a very selfish individual. You think only of yourself, and have no compassion for your fellow man. Is that how christians are? Not everyone who gets married in this country is a christian. Are they sick as well, or are you just insecure and self-conscious about homosexuals for some increasingly obvious reason?
I have mixed feelings on this issue.
On one hand I realize homosexuals want the freedoms and privileges that married couples receive and want to feel closer to each other.
On the other hand I realize that Christians and other religious people that recognize marriage want to keep it ';holy'; and between a man and a woman.
Honestly I think we should just slap a new name onto marriage for homosexuals. This bickering is annoying.
I wonder if the queers are having any luck in the middle east ,Russia,China and south America.It looks to me like there agendas are only getting traction in the morally corrupt western world.They will eventually win and just like they helped to Destroy ancient Greece and Roman empires with there filthy lust and acts they will do it again here as the old saying goes History repeats it's self.
I don't know why anyone in their right mind would want the possibility of losing half of their estate unless love is in the equation. If you don't have the same rights that everyone else has, then you are not a full citizen. I think then partial citizens should not be forced to pay full taxes. I am sorry for the lack of love, and insecurity you apparently feel.I hope your god can help you out with this.
I don't know why but I know in Florida they define marriage as one man and one woman. (I define it the same way). I guess they feel like it because..... I don't know. I have some gay friends but they don't do their stuff in public, I guess its for the attention they get from people staring at you.
You disgust me. How dare you put quotes around the word relationship. My relationship with my boyfriend is as normal and natural as any straight relationship. Love is love. Oh my god I can't even come up with an answer for your sick, bigoted question. You will burn in hell for your hateful ignorant ways.
You keep in mind that Jesus wanted you to love your neighbor as yourself... You're so into God's words yet you're sitting here bashing someones orientation as if they don't or shouldn't exist. Your religion doesn't apply to everyone. The bible DOES NOT dictate every law, not everyone has the same belief... Those that think they're right all the time know NOTHING. If you already know everything you can’t learn ‘nothing’. If you know that you know nothing, you can potentially, learn everything. So, you can stop twisting God's word around. Stop fighting so hard to do that... That's what is really defined as a abomination.
Love your neighbor as yourself.... That should explain why they fight so hard to get their rights.
If this is a sick attempt at humor, than congratulations!
If not, you're still mind-blowingly sick.
Dreamstuff Entity is right, people like you are the reason Christianity is hated %26amp; feared.
Gone gay-bashing lately?
Since you get tax breaks and other benefits for the State recognizing your heterosexual relationship, why should homosexuals be excluded? Maybe we should just have the IRS remove ';married'; from the tax laws so everyone pays the ';single'; taxpayer rates.
They think if the social arena accepts their life style....
then they think their behavior is acceptable and not sin!
It is an abomination to God!
We are to Love them and point them in the right direction! (Jesus)!
People should follow Truth because there is No Other Way!!!
The Christian religion is Truth-based...so you can accept the
Truth or take the Path to Destruction!
The damnation of souls can and does affect Christians!
The blood of the ';damned'; soul is credited to us...
if we do or say nothing!
Because there's no reason to treat them like second-class citizens.
Would you prefer us to use the original definition of marriage, where women are viewed as property to be exchanged?
What we resist persist's , just like the War on ------. this is a dualistic reality we are in , and each side is a supporting structure for the other.
why did blacks fight so hard that they wouldn't have to sit in the back of the bus? the only reason you're ranting about this is because you're a baby and can't handle gay people holding hands, get over yourself!
Because their opponenst are fighting even harder. Why would a church spends 10's of millions of dollars to fight it, when that money could obviously go to much better charitable use.
look its their choice let them be the bible also says fornication is an abomination but be honest who listens to that
Yeah, those silly and annoying gays. Wanting to be treated as if they were people or something.
Homophobic... much?...
R E P O R T E D
Why are religious people fighting so hard to prevent them from being able to get married? HOW DOES IT AFFECT YOU!?!?!?
Well did you enjoy your heaping dose of bigotry today?
I think you're parodying the typical close-minded type Christian, but I'm not sure. If not, then ask your God to stop making them gay and then he can complain about what they do.
The correct answer is to keep marriage as it is, but make up some seperate thing for gays, and be clear that this is something seperate that is not marriage but is being created for the illusion of equal rights, while keeping marriage as it has always been
Because they have ';rights'; which they can impose on everyone who disagrees with their ';lifestyle';
I understand your point and agree with you. The problem is that most people in here don't. They call people like you and I bigots and hate mongers. I doubt this answer will even make it before the question is reported.
So why do they need us to redefine the definition of marriage just to suit their lifestyle, which God's Word has defined as an abomination?Why do gays fight so hard to get the right to get married?
I sense that you have a few gay tendencies yourself, otherwise you wouldn't feel the need to bash people who are doing nothing but living their lives as they wish and following their hearts.
As George Carlin said (wise man, R.I.P) about the homophobia that so many men harbor, ';It isn't the queer outside they fear, but the queer within.';Why do gays fight so hard to get the right to get married?
You don't really want an answer to this question, do you? You just wanted to get your own opinion on the issue out there.
Nevertheless, here's my answer. I can't really speak for any gay people out there, but I assume they want to get married for the same reasons heterosexual couples do - for example, because they are in love, they want to share their happiness with friends and family, they want to demonstrate their commitment to the world by taking vows to love and honour that person for the rest of their life.
I am not gay myself, but I do not find the idea of men holding hands in any way offensive, and can't fathom what is 'sick' about it.
Also, you may have noticed that not everyone is a Christian. Those that aren't probably don't much care if ';God's Word'; defines their relationship as an abomination or not. Of course it's possible to be gay and consider yourself a Christian (though I'm sure you would feel the two are mutually exclusive) - in which case I suppose you would probably assume something like A) God is forgiving or B) maybe homophobic church leaders have warped ';God's Word'; to their own ends or C) whatever the hell you want to assume that allows you to live your life the way you want.
Looking forward to all the thumbs down from your intolerant brethren!
What difference does it make to you whether they can marry or not? How is it personally affecting you?
Answer: It's not.
And now I invite you to compare the ratio of the number of verses in the New Testament condemning homosexuality to the number of verses in the New Testament condemning Christians who presume to judge non-Christians. You might be surprised.
Hint: Matthew 7.
God's word defined it as an ';abomination'; in Leviticus, right next to prohibitions against wearing fabrics of mixed fibers, eating shellfish, and explanations of the proper way to sell your daughter into slavery. Please do some reading on your own and try to be intelligent about this.
That's not the main question. The main question is, why do radical conservatives and extremist fundamentalists fight so hard to twist God's word into political oppression that keeps citizens from having the same legal rights as heterosexuals.
All gay people want is equal rights under the law. You conservatives seem to think you're the only ones entitled to marriage.
Gays are denied rights afforded to heterosexuals, such as inheritance and hospital visitation rights in the event of unconsciousness.
it's fine to suggest that homosexual acts are an abomination (if a bit bigoted), but what you don't seem to understand is that basing legislation on religious beliefs is fine, as long as YOUR religious perspective is in the majority. What happens to Christianity when Muslims form a majority in the US and they want to ban Christians trying to convert other people in the US, the way it's illegal in other countries. Then, suddenly, basing laws on religious convictions doesn't seem like such a good idea, does it?
They want to make sincere declarations of the love and trust they hold for their spouse and they want them to be recognised the same way that those declarations love between a man and a women are recognised.
I cannot argue against that, to do so is to bring tragedy(Even in the Shakespearean sense) upon your fellow man, something I cannot do with a clean conscience.
I am not religious, or homosexual but that is what I think.
For the same reason interracial couples did.
Do you believe that because your specific religion forbids something it should be outlawed?
YOUR RELIGION DOES NOT APPLY TO EVERYONE.
If you want to restrict the freedoms of others based on your beliefs, you oppose religious freedom. You're evil. You're no different that somebody whose barbaric religion forbids, say, interracial marriage and is not satisfied with not practicing it himself, but wants to prevent everybody else - even non-believers - from being allowed to do as they choose.
You're the reason christians are hated and despised.
P.S. Interracial marriage wasn't legal in all 50 states until 2000, because of people like you.
First of all, not everyone follows ';God's word';. This country shouldn't be biased to the beliefs of one religion, especially since not everyone follows it. Gay people fight for the right to get married because they are in love and deserve the same rights as straight couples.
You seem to be a very selfish individual. You think only of yourself, and have no compassion for your fellow man. Is that how christians are? Not everyone who gets married in this country is a christian. Are they sick as well, or are you just insecure and self-conscious about homosexuals for some increasingly obvious reason?
I have mixed feelings on this issue.
On one hand I realize homosexuals want the freedoms and privileges that married couples receive and want to feel closer to each other.
On the other hand I realize that Christians and other religious people that recognize marriage want to keep it ';holy'; and between a man and a woman.
Honestly I think we should just slap a new name onto marriage for homosexuals. This bickering is annoying.
I wonder if the queers are having any luck in the middle east ,Russia,China and south America.It looks to me like there agendas are only getting traction in the morally corrupt western world.They will eventually win and just like they helped to Destroy ancient Greece and Roman empires with there filthy lust and acts they will do it again here as the old saying goes History repeats it's self.
I don't know why anyone in their right mind would want the possibility of losing half of their estate unless love is in the equation. If you don't have the same rights that everyone else has, then you are not a full citizen. I think then partial citizens should not be forced to pay full taxes. I am sorry for the lack of love, and insecurity you apparently feel.I hope your god can help you out with this.
I don't know why but I know in Florida they define marriage as one man and one woman. (I define it the same way). I guess they feel like it because..... I don't know. I have some gay friends but they don't do their stuff in public, I guess its for the attention they get from people staring at you.
You disgust me. How dare you put quotes around the word relationship. My relationship with my boyfriend is as normal and natural as any straight relationship. Love is love. Oh my god I can't even come up with an answer for your sick, bigoted question. You will burn in hell for your hateful ignorant ways.
You keep in mind that Jesus wanted you to love your neighbor as yourself... You're so into God's words yet you're sitting here bashing someones orientation as if they don't or shouldn't exist. Your religion doesn't apply to everyone. The bible DOES NOT dictate every law, not everyone has the same belief... Those that think they're right all the time know NOTHING. If you already know everything you can’t learn ‘nothing’. If you know that you know nothing, you can potentially, learn everything. So, you can stop twisting God's word around. Stop fighting so hard to do that... That's what is really defined as a abomination.
Love your neighbor as yourself.... That should explain why they fight so hard to get their rights.
If this is a sick attempt at humor, than congratulations!
If not, you're still mind-blowingly sick.
Dreamstuff Entity is right, people like you are the reason Christianity is hated %26amp; feared.
Gone gay-bashing lately?
Since you get tax breaks and other benefits for the State recognizing your heterosexual relationship, why should homosexuals be excluded? Maybe we should just have the IRS remove ';married'; from the tax laws so everyone pays the ';single'; taxpayer rates.
They think if the social arena accepts their life style....
then they think their behavior is acceptable and not sin!
It is an abomination to God!
We are to Love them and point them in the right direction! (Jesus)!
People should follow Truth because there is No Other Way!!!
The Christian religion is Truth-based...so you can accept the
Truth or take the Path to Destruction!
The damnation of souls can and does affect Christians!
The blood of the ';damned'; soul is credited to us...
if we do or say nothing!
Because there's no reason to treat them like second-class citizens.
Would you prefer us to use the original definition of marriage, where women are viewed as property to be exchanged?
What we resist persist's , just like the War on ------. this is a dualistic reality we are in , and each side is a supporting structure for the other.
why did blacks fight so hard that they wouldn't have to sit in the back of the bus? the only reason you're ranting about this is because you're a baby and can't handle gay people holding hands, get over yourself!
Because their opponenst are fighting even harder. Why would a church spends 10's of millions of dollars to fight it, when that money could obviously go to much better charitable use.
look its their choice let them be the bible also says fornication is an abomination but be honest who listens to that
Yeah, those silly and annoying gays. Wanting to be treated as if they were people or something.
Homophobic... much?...
R E P O R T E D
Why are religious people fighting so hard to prevent them from being able to get married? HOW DOES IT AFFECT YOU!?!?!?
Well did you enjoy your heaping dose of bigotry today?
I think you're parodying the typical close-minded type Christian, but I'm not sure. If not, then ask your God to stop making them gay and then he can complain about what they do.
The correct answer is to keep marriage as it is, but make up some seperate thing for gays, and be clear that this is something seperate that is not marriage but is being created for the illusion of equal rights, while keeping marriage as it has always been
Because they have ';rights'; which they can impose on everyone who disagrees with their ';lifestyle';
I understand your point and agree with you. The problem is that most people in here don't. They call people like you and I bigots and hate mongers. I doubt this answer will even make it before the question is reported.
I am married and have my home listed as married sole and seperate property here is the question my husband?
has recently been behind on his credit cards and has racked up about 12,000 in Medical Bills recently (no fault of his own.) If he files personal Bankruptcy (on his own) can they come after me for the debt?? We are in California. Again the house is in married sole and seperate property.I am married and have my home listed as married sole and seperate property here is the question my husband?
Personally - you'll be doing much greater damage if you file for bankruptcy over $12,000. I think it's time you meet with a financial planner and figure out some better alternatives.
Personally - you'll be doing much greater damage if you file for bankruptcy over $12,000. I think it's time you meet with a financial planner and figure out some better alternatives.
My boyfriend wants to get married but I dont? How do you handle this kind of sitiution?
It's not like I don't want to get married to him, but to anyone. Ever.
Marriage is just not for me. I've known this since I was 13.
So if someone asks you to marry them, or they mention that they plan on getting married someday. What do you do? What are you supposed to say?My boyfriend wants to get married but I dont? How do you handle this kind of sitiution?
Just tell him that you don't need a piece of paper because that's essentially all it is. My hubby and I lived together for 10 years before we got married, and it wasn't something we'd ever planned on doing until we decided to adopt. Then it became a requirement. Honestly, the only thing that has changed is the fact that we paid for a sheet of paper with a pretty gold seal on it lol.
Explain to him that it's not important to you, but he is and getting married changes nothing between two people who really care about eachother.My boyfriend wants to get married but I dont? How do you handle this kind of sitiution?
Be Honest, Up front and explore the reasons why you feel the way you do about marriage? What does marriage mean to you both?
I never, ever wanted to get married because I was a witness to many marriage break ups in my formative years. So I had a very negative interpretation of relationships, fullstop! Marriages equated to fighting, cheating, stealing, deceipt, power struggles and manipulation.(Any one keen on living a life full of this?)
But it doesn't have to be this way!
I now believe; If you think it, ultimately you will create it! Both good and bad. So if you enter a relationship with this sort of outlook, you may very well create a very unsavoury life for yourself and others around you.
If you live a life of love, others will love you and your outlook may change? Or then again it may not?
Explore the possibilities before a physical relationship ensues is probably the safest and least painfull option!
Be honest and accept his decision if he does not want to stay, differences like this often break relationships, but not always. It is not your fault or his; you just want different things. But you need to discuss it together. Its your choice to not get married, but it is also his choice to get married. Nobody is wrong in this situation; everybody is different. I know you get a lot of different answers, like if he loves you he will stay, but that is not necessarly true and if he does not stay it DOES NOT mean he did not love you and it DOES not mean all the good times you had does not count. People change and want different things as they grow; he might love you, but feel that staying with your he would miss out on a family and marrage and you can't deny him. But the best person to tell your what the story is would be him. If he says he does not want to stay; maybe you could still be friends and you could still love one another, but not the same kind of love. Honesty and communication is important in a relationship. You might both have to decide how you want to work our your differences. But I don't believe in that whole if you love me you will stay rubish, because love is not always enough and you could love somebody as a friend but decide not to be romatic. He could still be a huge part of you life without you being romantic, if you do decide to end it. That's why the work breakup and wasting time with a person is often misunderstood. Yes if he stays with you it would make him unavailable to meet somebody he could marry, but he was probably very happy with you earlier. And if he is not with you anymore the only part that has to end is the romance; you could still be there for one another. I was with somebody who did not want to get married and when he admitted that, we decided to still be friends, but that does not mean we broke up, just had a different kind of relationship. Now I am with somebody who plans to marry me next year. And I learned from that to discuss it in the begining and be honest.
How you say it to him depends on who your boyfriend is - You know him and how he will react better to what you said better than any of us.
I was on the receiving end of the ';don't want to ever get married'; talk, and whilst it may be a little unsettling, it isn't too bad.
Make it clear to him that you don't ever intend on marrying, because, in your own words, Marriage just isn't for you.
If that's truly what you believe, and your boyfriend is good enough he should understand enough.
Just be honest with him.
The worst thing you can do is lie or try to leave hope in his mind when there shouldn't be any. So, just be honest and tell him this before he asks you. After all, if you wait and say ';no'; when he asks you, it's going to hurt his feelings way more than if you tell him ahead of time. As for what to say, just be honest but diplomatic. Maybe something along these lines: ';Listen we need to talk. The whole reason I'm telling you this now is because I care about you and our relationship. I'm don't believe in marriage and don't ever want to do it. Here's why (insert your reasons here and make sure he knows it's not just him).';
I hope this helps!
Tell him why you don't want to get married. I've been able to persuade most people I've known that marriage is a stupid ritual, either that or they've just stuttered and walked off :/.
Tell him that if he really loved you he wouldn't need a contract or a title to be able to stay with you his entire life and that you find marriage a depressing concept in general.
Or w.e.
XD.
I'd also say that if you did believe in marriage you'd be obliged, and are flattered by the offer but don't want to let go of your principles because, 'it's what people do'.
EMZ=]
You need to make it very clear to him that you will never, ever marry him. If that is what this guy is looking for in life, you need to make it clear to him that he needs to break up with you and look elsewhere.
Its important you are clear with him about this, even if you hurt his feelings.
If you care about him, you will not want him wasting time with you, if you can't give him what he needs.
Well, I think you should tell him. may be he really wants to get married it would not be fair for him to give up what he wants just cause you have a different opinion of marriage. Of course it will be hard if its a boyfriend of a long time and you love him but maybe there is someone out there in the world that shares your same perspective on marriage..
Hope this helped
good luck
oh god one time this girl in frunt of all my friends said when we get married will you do this for me andi just frozzz DAMN!!! i know how you feel i was stuttering and everything idk i was like changing the subject and everything tell him you want to be with him for atleast 5 years first lol worked for me i just wish i thought of it then before i got yelled at in frunt of my friends =P
Tell him you love him very much... or like him very much (whatever fits your situation) but that you are not looking for someone to marry. Tell him that it is not anything against him but that you have just chosen to be independent and remain unmarried for life. I know it's easier said than done, but you really must tell him. Good luck!!
The truth. Tell him you love him, you want to be with him, but marriage is not something you are interested in. He may be the traditional type and feel the right thing for him is to have a wife and family,, and if that is the case, I would imagine the relationship is not destined to last.
tell him, you love him, but your not ready to get married, and not sure if you ever will be ... and that it doesn't mean you love him any less ...
keep in mind ...
what you THINK you want at 13, or 15, or 17 is wayyyyyyyyyy different then what you want at 25, 30, or 35 ...
so don't close yourself off to somehting you are (probably) to young to even understand ...
Its hard, but its not what you want. So you have to make it quite clear. He may not want to stay with you if your going to end up not ever getting married. If you don't communicate; then he'll never know %26amp; you may be pressured into doing something you don't want.
If you dont want to get married, then theres really no point in dating him. Wouldnt you feel bad that the relationship youre in is going to go nowhere, and you know it but he doesnt? I think if you realy love him, youll marry him someday. If not... I dunno...
if you are old enough and ready, and truly love him, and your parents allow it or anyone else that is close to you thinks its a good idea, then if you really only want to you can, because you will know when the time is right
Make that clear to any guy you start a relationship with right in the beginning. I am sure you will find a lot of 1 night standers if you do so.
As for in this case. just tell him the truth without sugar coating your words.
well if your boyfriend is so in love with you then he will understand that you want to stay boyfriend/ girlfriend, but you are not ready to make a serious commitment in your life. He should undersatnd
tell him what you just said. you have no intentions of ever getting married. if you have reasons, state them. if not, say nothing. that way he can choose to move on if need be.
Why would you get into a relationship then?
Don't mess around with people if you don't wanna pay the consequences
MARRIAGE IS THE PUNISHMENT FOR SHOPLIFTING IN SOME COUNTRY'S!
umm reference DR cox and jordan from scrubs and say no i want to be like them you know not married EVER but still so exclusive it might as well be marriage
be honest with him because he might understand you or he might not just be honest and say you know right not marriage isnt for me
just be honest with them and tell them your not comfortable with it. my uncle is 40 and doesnt plan on getting married anytime soon..
If he loves you enough to marry you, he should love you enough to be ok with NOT marrying you.
Oh, that's tough. Try explaining to him. I'm sure he'll understand. Honesty's always best.
just explain to him that you love him but don't think you need marriage to show that.
try to explain it to him. but really that should be one of the first things you mention when you meet someone.
You don't have to marry anyone ,anytime soon. Say that.
GOD BLESS
I use to say the same thing until the right man came along.
Be honest with him.
Tell him to **** off
it doesnt matter whos wrong or right just beat it
Tell Him you are not ready yet , And if he doesn't understand that , He isn't the right one anyway.
Marriage is just not for me. I've known this since I was 13.
So if someone asks you to marry them, or they mention that they plan on getting married someday. What do you do? What are you supposed to say?My boyfriend wants to get married but I dont? How do you handle this kind of sitiution?
Just tell him that you don't need a piece of paper because that's essentially all it is. My hubby and I lived together for 10 years before we got married, and it wasn't something we'd ever planned on doing until we decided to adopt. Then it became a requirement. Honestly, the only thing that has changed is the fact that we paid for a sheet of paper with a pretty gold seal on it lol.
Explain to him that it's not important to you, but he is and getting married changes nothing between two people who really care about eachother.My boyfriend wants to get married but I dont? How do you handle this kind of sitiution?
Be Honest, Up front and explore the reasons why you feel the way you do about marriage? What does marriage mean to you both?
I never, ever wanted to get married because I was a witness to many marriage break ups in my formative years. So I had a very negative interpretation of relationships, fullstop! Marriages equated to fighting, cheating, stealing, deceipt, power struggles and manipulation.(Any one keen on living a life full of this?)
But it doesn't have to be this way!
I now believe; If you think it, ultimately you will create it! Both good and bad. So if you enter a relationship with this sort of outlook, you may very well create a very unsavoury life for yourself and others around you.
If you live a life of love, others will love you and your outlook may change? Or then again it may not?
Explore the possibilities before a physical relationship ensues is probably the safest and least painfull option!
Be honest and accept his decision if he does not want to stay, differences like this often break relationships, but not always. It is not your fault or his; you just want different things. But you need to discuss it together. Its your choice to not get married, but it is also his choice to get married. Nobody is wrong in this situation; everybody is different. I know you get a lot of different answers, like if he loves you he will stay, but that is not necessarly true and if he does not stay it DOES NOT mean he did not love you and it DOES not mean all the good times you had does not count. People change and want different things as they grow; he might love you, but feel that staying with your he would miss out on a family and marrage and you can't deny him. But the best person to tell your what the story is would be him. If he says he does not want to stay; maybe you could still be friends and you could still love one another, but not the same kind of love. Honesty and communication is important in a relationship. You might both have to decide how you want to work our your differences. But I don't believe in that whole if you love me you will stay rubish, because love is not always enough and you could love somebody as a friend but decide not to be romatic. He could still be a huge part of you life without you being romantic, if you do decide to end it. That's why the work breakup and wasting time with a person is often misunderstood. Yes if he stays with you it would make him unavailable to meet somebody he could marry, but he was probably very happy with you earlier. And if he is not with you anymore the only part that has to end is the romance; you could still be there for one another. I was with somebody who did not want to get married and when he admitted that, we decided to still be friends, but that does not mean we broke up, just had a different kind of relationship. Now I am with somebody who plans to marry me next year. And I learned from that to discuss it in the begining and be honest.
How you say it to him depends on who your boyfriend is - You know him and how he will react better to what you said better than any of us.
I was on the receiving end of the ';don't want to ever get married'; talk, and whilst it may be a little unsettling, it isn't too bad.
Make it clear to him that you don't ever intend on marrying, because, in your own words, Marriage just isn't for you.
If that's truly what you believe, and your boyfriend is good enough he should understand enough.
Just be honest with him.
The worst thing you can do is lie or try to leave hope in his mind when there shouldn't be any. So, just be honest and tell him this before he asks you. After all, if you wait and say ';no'; when he asks you, it's going to hurt his feelings way more than if you tell him ahead of time. As for what to say, just be honest but diplomatic. Maybe something along these lines: ';Listen we need to talk. The whole reason I'm telling you this now is because I care about you and our relationship. I'm don't believe in marriage and don't ever want to do it. Here's why (insert your reasons here and make sure he knows it's not just him).';
I hope this helps!
Tell him why you don't want to get married. I've been able to persuade most people I've known that marriage is a stupid ritual, either that or they've just stuttered and walked off :/.
Tell him that if he really loved you he wouldn't need a contract or a title to be able to stay with you his entire life and that you find marriage a depressing concept in general.
Or w.e.
XD.
I'd also say that if you did believe in marriage you'd be obliged, and are flattered by the offer but don't want to let go of your principles because, 'it's what people do'.
EMZ=]
You need to make it very clear to him that you will never, ever marry him. If that is what this guy is looking for in life, you need to make it clear to him that he needs to break up with you and look elsewhere.
Its important you are clear with him about this, even if you hurt his feelings.
If you care about him, you will not want him wasting time with you, if you can't give him what he needs.
Well, I think you should tell him. may be he really wants to get married it would not be fair for him to give up what he wants just cause you have a different opinion of marriage. Of course it will be hard if its a boyfriend of a long time and you love him but maybe there is someone out there in the world that shares your same perspective on marriage..
Hope this helped
good luck
oh god one time this girl in frunt of all my friends said when we get married will you do this for me andi just frozzz DAMN!!! i know how you feel i was stuttering and everything idk i was like changing the subject and everything tell him you want to be with him for atleast 5 years first lol worked for me i just wish i thought of it then before i got yelled at in frunt of my friends =P
Tell him you love him very much... or like him very much (whatever fits your situation) but that you are not looking for someone to marry. Tell him that it is not anything against him but that you have just chosen to be independent and remain unmarried for life. I know it's easier said than done, but you really must tell him. Good luck!!
The truth. Tell him you love him, you want to be with him, but marriage is not something you are interested in. He may be the traditional type and feel the right thing for him is to have a wife and family,, and if that is the case, I would imagine the relationship is not destined to last.
tell him, you love him, but your not ready to get married, and not sure if you ever will be ... and that it doesn't mean you love him any less ...
keep in mind ...
what you THINK you want at 13, or 15, or 17 is wayyyyyyyyyy different then what you want at 25, 30, or 35 ...
so don't close yourself off to somehting you are (probably) to young to even understand ...
Its hard, but its not what you want. So you have to make it quite clear. He may not want to stay with you if your going to end up not ever getting married. If you don't communicate; then he'll never know %26amp; you may be pressured into doing something you don't want.
If you dont want to get married, then theres really no point in dating him. Wouldnt you feel bad that the relationship youre in is going to go nowhere, and you know it but he doesnt? I think if you realy love him, youll marry him someday. If not... I dunno...
if you are old enough and ready, and truly love him, and your parents allow it or anyone else that is close to you thinks its a good idea, then if you really only want to you can, because you will know when the time is right
Make that clear to any guy you start a relationship with right in the beginning. I am sure you will find a lot of 1 night standers if you do so.
As for in this case. just tell him the truth without sugar coating your words.
well if your boyfriend is so in love with you then he will understand that you want to stay boyfriend/ girlfriend, but you are not ready to make a serious commitment in your life. He should undersatnd
tell him what you just said. you have no intentions of ever getting married. if you have reasons, state them. if not, say nothing. that way he can choose to move on if need be.
Why would you get into a relationship then?
Don't mess around with people if you don't wanna pay the consequences
MARRIAGE IS THE PUNISHMENT FOR SHOPLIFTING IN SOME COUNTRY'S!
umm reference DR cox and jordan from scrubs and say no i want to be like them you know not married EVER but still so exclusive it might as well be marriage
be honest with him because he might understand you or he might not just be honest and say you know right not marriage isnt for me
just be honest with them and tell them your not comfortable with it. my uncle is 40 and doesnt plan on getting married anytime soon..
If he loves you enough to marry you, he should love you enough to be ok with NOT marrying you.
Oh, that's tough. Try explaining to him. I'm sure he'll understand. Honesty's always best.
just explain to him that you love him but don't think you need marriage to show that.
try to explain it to him. but really that should be one of the first things you mention when you meet someone.
You don't have to marry anyone ,anytime soon. Say that.
GOD BLESS
I use to say the same thing until the right man came along.
Be honest with him.
Tell him to **** off
it doesnt matter whos wrong or right just beat it
Tell Him you are not ready yet , And if he doesn't understand that , He isn't the right one anyway.
What happens if I get married to my Army bf?
My bf has already gone to basic and is finishing his ait right now. He will be able to come home next week for a month after his graduation. After that, he's being stationed in Germany. He asked me to marry him.. Is it okay for us to get married while he's on this break? Will I be able to go with him? He has two kids with another girl he never married or anything? What will happen?What happens if I get married to my Army bf?
You can get married but you will not be able to go with him right away. You should get several copies of the marriage certificate so that you can each have one. You will need it to change all your IDs and information. He needs it to enter you into DEERS. If there is a base located near you he can do it there and you can go with him to get a Military ID. If he has to wait until he gets to Germany then you will have to wait as well to get one. He will need to send you a Form DD1172 to get an ID at the closest base. Once you are entered into DEERS you are automatically enrolled in Tricare Standard. With Standard there is a yearly deductible and a co-pay for each visit. Once you have your ID you can change to Tricare Prime in which there is no payments necessary. You can also enroll yourself in United Concordia Dental plan. This is about $12 a month for just the spouse or $29 a month for the family. if he has the 2 children listed on his Page 2 then he would be already paying the Family Plan and you just need to be added to it.
He needs to report and put in a request to get the orders changed to accompanied. You will then have to go through a medical and dental overseas screening before they will change the orders. You then need to apply for a Government No-Fee Passport to have with you when you arrive. You should also get a regular Tourist Passport so you can travel with overseas.
Unless he has custody of the other 2 children then it will not change anything at all. He will need to speak to the children's mother about visitation, etc...What happens if I get married to my Army bf?
Ok Wow....yes you can get married while he is on leave. You will be able to go with him but not right away. He will have to report to his duty station and put you in DEERS to make you a dependent. He will need your marriage certificate to do that. Then he will have to get his orders amended to allow for a command sponsorship so you can join him. All of this can take a little while so be patient and good luck!!!!!
Oh yeah as for his children that is up to his ex and him to decide but they will have coverage under tri care and regular post privileges.
Yes, you can get married while he is on break. Just keep in mind that you will not be able to go to Germany with him right away. You have to get something called command sponsorship for an overseas assignment. There is a lot of paperwork involved and you will need to get started as soon as you can b/c it can take many months for the sponsorship to get approved and to get you onto his orders.
Yeah, you can get married while he's on break. I did it!
Once you're married, he files the paperwork and of course you have to stay home with whomever, you're living with at the moment until he gets on base housing, then you can go with him to wherever he's stationed..
It'll be fun! I loved the military life.. I hear great things about Germany, It's beautiful over there... It's nothing but greenery and trees and mountains, very peaceful..
Have a small wedding, if you're short on time.. It'll be worth it... Don't worry about his ex, He still has to pay child support though, so don't fight about that because they are his kids.. I suggest holding off yourself and not having kids so fast, enjoy your marriage, Go out with you future hubby, have fun, Enjoy marriage life!
Explore new things, Good luck to you!
First of all I would like to say Congratulations! Being an Army Wife is like being in a really big Sorority and your like will be enriched with all the wonderful experiences and places you will see.
Yes, it is perfectly fine to get married while he is on Leave. My husband and I were married during a 2 week leave he was granted for Christmas 3 years ago. But the chances that you will be able to go to Germany with him right away are very slim.
It took 6 months for us to receive Command Sponsorship even though the Army acknowledged we were married and we already received our extra pay. But Command Sponsorship is what you need in order for them to pay for your move. My husband and I couldn't take the wait anymore so after 2 months, I sold all my furniture and bought a plane ticket myself so we could start our lives together. That would be a great thing to ask for as a wedding gift, money towards a plane ticket instead of kitchenware and stuff like that.
As for his children, that all depends on if he has custody and his arrangement with their mother.
Best of luck to you guys!
you sound stressed. relax. yes it is ok to get married while on break (just try not to take forever planning anything or make the honeymoon too long) and yes you can go with him, you dont have to but i hear germany's a nice place. does he see the kids? if he has any relation to the kids then you will probably get to know them a bit and maybe he will ask the mom to take them with him or whatever. and if you do get married, you will be moving probably quite a bit depending on his status and whatnot.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
you will eventually have army babies!!
good luck!!
You will be allowed to go with him with no problem whatsoever.
probably you'll cheat him with many many others as he's away and having sex is awesome, then he'll find that and kill you and all of the guys u slept with. charming,eh?
LOL U GET RICH.A GOOD LIFE BABY.
You can get married but you will not be able to go with him right away. You should get several copies of the marriage certificate so that you can each have one. You will need it to change all your IDs and information. He needs it to enter you into DEERS. If there is a base located near you he can do it there and you can go with him to get a Military ID. If he has to wait until he gets to Germany then you will have to wait as well to get one. He will need to send you a Form DD1172 to get an ID at the closest base. Once you are entered into DEERS you are automatically enrolled in Tricare Standard. With Standard there is a yearly deductible and a co-pay for each visit. Once you have your ID you can change to Tricare Prime in which there is no payments necessary. You can also enroll yourself in United Concordia Dental plan. This is about $12 a month for just the spouse or $29 a month for the family. if he has the 2 children listed on his Page 2 then he would be already paying the Family Plan and you just need to be added to it.
He needs to report and put in a request to get the orders changed to accompanied. You will then have to go through a medical and dental overseas screening before they will change the orders. You then need to apply for a Government No-Fee Passport to have with you when you arrive. You should also get a regular Tourist Passport so you can travel with overseas.
Unless he has custody of the other 2 children then it will not change anything at all. He will need to speak to the children's mother about visitation, etc...What happens if I get married to my Army bf?
Ok Wow....yes you can get married while he is on leave. You will be able to go with him but not right away. He will have to report to his duty station and put you in DEERS to make you a dependent. He will need your marriage certificate to do that. Then he will have to get his orders amended to allow for a command sponsorship so you can join him. All of this can take a little while so be patient and good luck!!!!!
Oh yeah as for his children that is up to his ex and him to decide but they will have coverage under tri care and regular post privileges.
Yes, you can get married while he is on break. Just keep in mind that you will not be able to go to Germany with him right away. You have to get something called command sponsorship for an overseas assignment. There is a lot of paperwork involved and you will need to get started as soon as you can b/c it can take many months for the sponsorship to get approved and to get you onto his orders.
Yeah, you can get married while he's on break. I did it!
Once you're married, he files the paperwork and of course you have to stay home with whomever, you're living with at the moment until he gets on base housing, then you can go with him to wherever he's stationed..
It'll be fun! I loved the military life.. I hear great things about Germany, It's beautiful over there... It's nothing but greenery and trees and mountains, very peaceful..
Have a small wedding, if you're short on time.. It'll be worth it... Don't worry about his ex, He still has to pay child support though, so don't fight about that because they are his kids.. I suggest holding off yourself and not having kids so fast, enjoy your marriage, Go out with you future hubby, have fun, Enjoy marriage life!
Explore new things, Good luck to you!
First of all I would like to say Congratulations! Being an Army Wife is like being in a really big Sorority and your like will be enriched with all the wonderful experiences and places you will see.
Yes, it is perfectly fine to get married while he is on Leave. My husband and I were married during a 2 week leave he was granted for Christmas 3 years ago. But the chances that you will be able to go to Germany with him right away are very slim.
It took 6 months for us to receive Command Sponsorship even though the Army acknowledged we were married and we already received our extra pay. But Command Sponsorship is what you need in order for them to pay for your move. My husband and I couldn't take the wait anymore so after 2 months, I sold all my furniture and bought a plane ticket myself so we could start our lives together. That would be a great thing to ask for as a wedding gift, money towards a plane ticket instead of kitchenware and stuff like that.
As for his children, that all depends on if he has custody and his arrangement with their mother.
Best of luck to you guys!
you sound stressed. relax. yes it is ok to get married while on break (just try not to take forever planning anything or make the honeymoon too long) and yes you can go with him, you dont have to but i hear germany's a nice place. does he see the kids? if he has any relation to the kids then you will probably get to know them a bit and maybe he will ask the mom to take them with him or whatever. and if you do get married, you will be moving probably quite a bit depending on his status and whatnot.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
you will eventually have army babies!!
good luck!!
You will be allowed to go with him with no problem whatsoever.
probably you'll cheat him with many many others as he's away and having sex is awesome, then he'll find that and kill you and all of the guys u slept with. charming,eh?
LOL U GET RICH.A GOOD LIFE BABY.
Is it tacky to get married in a casino in Las Vegas?
Do you consider it tacky to get married in a casino in Las Vegas? Is a wedding a wedding no matter where it's held, or do you think it should be in your own country?Is it tacky to get married in a casino in Las Vegas?
A wedding is a wedding that still holds the same meaning no matter where it's held, how much it costs, who is in it, what culture it portrays, etc.Is it tacky to get married in a casino in Las Vegas?
Sometimes, a wedding in another country is not legal in the United States so you need to make sure it is! No, a wedding is a wedding as long as it is legal. Lots of destination weddings are held in other countries and they are beautiful and unique.
As far as a wedding in a Las Vegas casino goes, if you and your husband-to-be are okay with it, go for it. It is legal and there is nothing wrong with a quick wedding. Your family may be upset if they were not invited to witness it. To solve this problem, you can hold a reception when you go back home. Invite friends and family, announce your marriage and hold a nice party to celebrate. A lot of couples do this. Best wishes.
Most casinos have fancy chapels on-site and it's not tacky. Getting married on the gaming floor among the slots and poker tables would be a bit odd.
Yes it is legal in most (if not all) countries if you get married there. Yes it is a wedding, because vows are exchanged in front of a minister and witnesses and legal paperwork is filed.
I don't think it's tacky to get married in Las Vegas, I think it would be alot of fun, my uncle and my cousin both got married there and unfortunately i didn't get to go but from what i heard they were awesome ceremonies, if you can afford to go to your own country to get married, then go for it but as far as the vegas deal goes, i think it would pretty fun
your wedding should be whereever you want it to be, and no i dont consider it tacky at all. it's your wedding, plan it to be perfect for YOU BOTH!! I had a huge wedding, spent alot of money for EVERYONE else to have a good time, now im divorced , just had to throw that in there lol
all the best to you both!!!
oh waw, since i come from a traditional background, i notice that the wilder things are, the more love that comes out of it all. go for it, feel the rush and excitement, tradition and rules are boring and not to mention over rated. its between you and your loved one. think about the conversations you will have about ur crazy night. isn't it better than dealing with the stress of making everyone happy on ur wedding day? less is more.
Yes it is tacky. But if its what you and your partner want go for it, who cares what anyone else thinks! And a wedding is a wedding when the two people getting married love each and want to be with each other forever, it doesnt matter where the ceremoy takes place.
Nope. They have some GORGEOUS chapels there now. The Bellagio and Venetian both hold weddings.
Even in one of those cheesy chapels your wedding is just that, cheesy. (NOT tacky). Cheesy suits some people's personalities. Cheesy can be good. Personally, I LOVE cheesy!
I say, do what you want. What will make you 2 happy!!
Yeah, kinda because wouldn't you rather get married somewhere nice.?
It'll only be as tacky as you make it.
I love Vegas! Why not?
yes
it is tacky
YES VERY! Unless you get Elvis... then that would be classy!
yes
A wedding is a wedding that still holds the same meaning no matter where it's held, how much it costs, who is in it, what culture it portrays, etc.Is it tacky to get married in a casino in Las Vegas?
Sometimes, a wedding in another country is not legal in the United States so you need to make sure it is! No, a wedding is a wedding as long as it is legal. Lots of destination weddings are held in other countries and they are beautiful and unique.
As far as a wedding in a Las Vegas casino goes, if you and your husband-to-be are okay with it, go for it. It is legal and there is nothing wrong with a quick wedding. Your family may be upset if they were not invited to witness it. To solve this problem, you can hold a reception when you go back home. Invite friends and family, announce your marriage and hold a nice party to celebrate. A lot of couples do this. Best wishes.
Most casinos have fancy chapels on-site and it's not tacky. Getting married on the gaming floor among the slots and poker tables would be a bit odd.
Yes it is legal in most (if not all) countries if you get married there. Yes it is a wedding, because vows are exchanged in front of a minister and witnesses and legal paperwork is filed.
I don't think it's tacky to get married in Las Vegas, I think it would be alot of fun, my uncle and my cousin both got married there and unfortunately i didn't get to go but from what i heard they were awesome ceremonies, if you can afford to go to your own country to get married, then go for it but as far as the vegas deal goes, i think it would pretty fun
your wedding should be whereever you want it to be, and no i dont consider it tacky at all. it's your wedding, plan it to be perfect for YOU BOTH!! I had a huge wedding, spent alot of money for EVERYONE else to have a good time, now im divorced , just had to throw that in there lol
all the best to you both!!!
oh waw, since i come from a traditional background, i notice that the wilder things are, the more love that comes out of it all. go for it, feel the rush and excitement, tradition and rules are boring and not to mention over rated. its between you and your loved one. think about the conversations you will have about ur crazy night. isn't it better than dealing with the stress of making everyone happy on ur wedding day? less is more.
Yes it is tacky. But if its what you and your partner want go for it, who cares what anyone else thinks! And a wedding is a wedding when the two people getting married love each and want to be with each other forever, it doesnt matter where the ceremoy takes place.
Nope. They have some GORGEOUS chapels there now. The Bellagio and Venetian both hold weddings.
Even in one of those cheesy chapels your wedding is just that, cheesy. (NOT tacky). Cheesy suits some people's personalities. Cheesy can be good. Personally, I LOVE cheesy!
I say, do what you want. What will make you 2 happy!!
Yeah, kinda because wouldn't you rather get married somewhere nice.?
It'll only be as tacky as you make it.
I love Vegas! Why not?
yes
it is tacky
YES VERY! Unless you get Elvis... then that would be classy!
yes
Is it possible to get married at 15 in california?
In California, is it possible to get married at 15 years of age with another 15 year old?
I did some research and for California it said: 'No statutory minimum age under which marriage licences will not be issued';
Thank you in all advance.Is it possible to get married at 15 in california?
It is a very foolish idea first off. It is true what you've read I would think so.
If you're 18 or over, it's a whatever deal, but if you're 17 or younger, you'll need parents permission from both sides, and then it just gets complicated. You're just a kid! Enjoy being a kid now and don't worry about marriage until you're emotionally and financially stable. You're not old enough to get a permit, you're not old enough to get a full time job, you're not even out of high school yet! Marriage is a real big step in life, it's not something you do for kicks then decide to divorce because you're bored of each other. This is a subject you shouldn't take lightly. Please think this over very seriously, even if it starts hurting your head. Think it over very hard.Is it possible to get married at 15 in california?
Under 18 you need your parents permission.
If they say no, you can't get married and at that age, marriage is pointless and idiotic.
thats a HORRIBLE idea. i'm 15 and WOULDNT CONSIDER marrying anytime soon. But i will answer your question. I'm pretty sure if both your parents give permission you can. idk exactly how that works though...
Arggh! You would be better off coming to sea with Old Long John than that. You would be better off walking the plank or swimming with the sharks.
Hopefully, your and/or some other child is considering this foolish idea!facial
I did some research and for California it said: 'No statutory minimum age under which marriage licences will not be issued';
Thank you in all advance.Is it possible to get married at 15 in california?
It is a very foolish idea first off. It is true what you've read I would think so.
If you're 18 or over, it's a whatever deal, but if you're 17 or younger, you'll need parents permission from both sides, and then it just gets complicated. You're just a kid! Enjoy being a kid now and don't worry about marriage until you're emotionally and financially stable. You're not old enough to get a permit, you're not old enough to get a full time job, you're not even out of high school yet! Marriage is a real big step in life, it's not something you do for kicks then decide to divorce because you're bored of each other. This is a subject you shouldn't take lightly. Please think this over very seriously, even if it starts hurting your head. Think it over very hard.Is it possible to get married at 15 in california?
Under 18 you need your parents permission.
If they say no, you can't get married and at that age, marriage is pointless and idiotic.
thats a HORRIBLE idea. i'm 15 and WOULDNT CONSIDER marrying anytime soon. But i will answer your question. I'm pretty sure if both your parents give permission you can. idk exactly how that works though...
Arggh! You would be better off coming to sea with Old Long John than that. You would be better off walking the plank or swimming with the sharks.
Hopefully, your and/or some other child is considering this foolish idea!
How many people here have married someone they met on facebook or myspace?
i'm not lol. im just wondering if anyone here has out of curiousity.How many people here have married someone they met on facebook or myspace?
Guilty. I'm 53 and she's 51 http://myspace.com/jimobasa
Guilty. I'm 53 and she's 51 http://myspace.com/jimobasa
I just found out my husband only married me to get a green card. What revenge tips can I take?
Can I call immigration and have him sent back or now that he has the green card can he stay? Be creative cause I'm really hurt and angry over this. I just found out my husband only married me to get a green card. What revenge tips can I take?
Is he holding a conditional green card?Don't sign anything and don't appear with him during the interview when he apply to remove conditions. He will be needing you when he remove conditions. The best thing you can do for now is to report to the USCIS the fraud esp if you have proofs that he just married you for green card.I just found out my husband only married me to get a green card. What revenge tips can I take?
That sucks. Truly. I'm sorry that happened to you.
Get in touch with the Marriage Fraud Unit of the USCIS and report his sorry butt. You can find out how to contact them by calling the ICE tip line: 1-866-DHS-2ICE
His residency CAN be revoked if an investigation reveals he entered into marriage fraudulently in order to come to or stay in the U.S.
This is punnishable by up to 10 years in Federal prison and a $250,000 fine - then deportation, and permanent bar from re-entering the United States.
You might also explore getting an Anullment -not a Divorce - based on the criteria of fraud. An annullment basically means the marriage is voided - as if it never took place. That could retroactively affect his resident status and his green card could be revoked.
Before you do anything else- consult with an attorney who specializes in U.S. Immigration Law to find out your options. They don't only work to help immigrants stay in the U.S. - they know what is and is not possible in order to get scammers deported.
Good Luck to you!
yes, you can call the US Government and they'll take care of this.
otherwise, I'd take dirty pictures of him and post them on the internet. ALL OVER. Also, it'd be worth it to return all of the gifts he ever got you and buy something really expensive with it...like I really like the Louis Vuitton Neverfull GM. Beyond that get some COach and Gucci accessories.
The teen movie; Mean Girls, has some good tips, as well.
=) good luck, girl.
I do understand your hurt because it is based on a very hurtful betrayal. First of all, if you take revenge on him, you are giving him too much power over your life since this would leave a huge scar in your life (bigger than the one he's left now). Another thing that you should make sure of is that he actually cheated, there might be more to that. Sometimes there are hurtful situations in our lives that help us to learn and grow... so maybe chalk this one up to experience. Maybe you wanted love so badly that you let him into your life too easily, and its too time to let him go as easily as he came in to your life. No need to exhaust yourself taking revenge.. just let him go because what goes around comes around (that is a for sure). Let God take his justice with him.
You can file for an annulment based on fraud. You can and should report him to USCIS for marriage fraud.
The following link shows the various ICE offices in the US and contact information. Call the one nearest you.
http://www.ice.gov/about/dro/contact.htm
If you have joint bank accounts, remove your money. Cancel any credit cards you jointly have.
i know that if one gets a greencard by marriage, there is a 2yr condition that comes with it. after 2 yrs and you are not together, immigration can take his greencard.
i'm sorry to hear this.
yeah I think no matter what he wins, BUT you can always try to call em and see what they say, was it a long time ago cause if not they may side with you on this one.
Sorry and Good luck
Divorce him and then turn him into the INS. Plant some drugs on him and they will deport him. Hopefully, it will be to the interior of Mexico. Then it would be a long walk back to the U.S. border.
get him to compensate you financially for your time
______________________________________
_____________________________________
EDIT***
but don't get him deported. Think how desperately he must have wanted to be here...don't take that away...be the bigger person :)
you can have him charged with International Marriage Fraud. That P.O.S. needs to be punished.
Get an STD, then give it to him.
Is he holding a conditional green card?Don't sign anything and don't appear with him during the interview when he apply to remove conditions. He will be needing you when he remove conditions. The best thing you can do for now is to report to the USCIS the fraud esp if you have proofs that he just married you for green card.I just found out my husband only married me to get a green card. What revenge tips can I take?
That sucks. Truly. I'm sorry that happened to you.
Get in touch with the Marriage Fraud Unit of the USCIS and report his sorry butt. You can find out how to contact them by calling the ICE tip line: 1-866-DHS-2ICE
His residency CAN be revoked if an investigation reveals he entered into marriage fraudulently in order to come to or stay in the U.S.
This is punnishable by up to 10 years in Federal prison and a $250,000 fine - then deportation, and permanent bar from re-entering the United States.
You might also explore getting an Anullment -not a Divorce - based on the criteria of fraud. An annullment basically means the marriage is voided - as if it never took place. That could retroactively affect his resident status and his green card could be revoked.
Before you do anything else- consult with an attorney who specializes in U.S. Immigration Law to find out your options. They don't only work to help immigrants stay in the U.S. - they know what is and is not possible in order to get scammers deported.
Good Luck to you!
yes, you can call the US Government and they'll take care of this.
otherwise, I'd take dirty pictures of him and post them on the internet. ALL OVER. Also, it'd be worth it to return all of the gifts he ever got you and buy something really expensive with it...like I really like the Louis Vuitton Neverfull GM. Beyond that get some COach and Gucci accessories.
The teen movie; Mean Girls, has some good tips, as well.
=) good luck, girl.
I do understand your hurt because it is based on a very hurtful betrayal. First of all, if you take revenge on him, you are giving him too much power over your life since this would leave a huge scar in your life (bigger than the one he's left now). Another thing that you should make sure of is that he actually cheated, there might be more to that. Sometimes there are hurtful situations in our lives that help us to learn and grow... so maybe chalk this one up to experience. Maybe you wanted love so badly that you let him into your life too easily, and its too time to let him go as easily as he came in to your life. No need to exhaust yourself taking revenge.. just let him go because what goes around comes around (that is a for sure). Let God take his justice with him.
You can file for an annulment based on fraud. You can and should report him to USCIS for marriage fraud.
The following link shows the various ICE offices in the US and contact information. Call the one nearest you.
http://www.ice.gov/about/dro/contact.htm
If you have joint bank accounts, remove your money. Cancel any credit cards you jointly have.
i know that if one gets a greencard by marriage, there is a 2yr condition that comes with it. after 2 yrs and you are not together, immigration can take his greencard.
i'm sorry to hear this.
yeah I think no matter what he wins, BUT you can always try to call em and see what they say, was it a long time ago cause if not they may side with you on this one.
Sorry and Good luck
Divorce him and then turn him into the INS. Plant some drugs on him and they will deport him. Hopefully, it will be to the interior of Mexico. Then it would be a long walk back to the U.S. border.
get him to compensate you financially for your time
______________________________________
_____________________________________
EDIT***
but don't get him deported. Think how desperately he must have wanted to be here...don't take that away...be the bigger person :)
you can have him charged with International Marriage Fraud. That P.O.S. needs to be punished.
Get an STD, then give it to him.
Should i mention to Emirates Airlines that i have a 10 year relationship but not married?
Should i mention to Emirates Airlines that i have a 10 year relationship but not married?
I am going for a flight attendant job but i know i cannot bring my partner with me. 10 years no ring on my finger. I can see him whenever. He is very busy himself with new business. I heard you cannot bring a boyfriend and who does gets fired. Any info?
Should i mention to Emirates Airlines that i have a 10 year relationship but not married?
They say that for flight attendance becuase it is a certain thing called ';special treatment';
they dont want you giving out free plane rides.
As for the whole thing of you not being married, a career is a career, and your personal business is only YOURS to know.
Should i mention to Emirates Airlines that i have a 10 year relationship but not married?
Why would you bring your boyfriend, I dont' understand the issue I guess.
I am going for a flight attendant job but i know i cannot bring my partner with me. 10 years no ring on my finger. I can see him whenever. He is very busy himself with new business. I heard you cannot bring a boyfriend and who does gets fired. Any info?
Should i mention to Emirates Airlines that i have a 10 year relationship but not married?
They say that for flight attendance becuase it is a certain thing called ';special treatment';
they dont want you giving out free plane rides.
As for the whole thing of you not being married, a career is a career, and your personal business is only YOURS to know.
Should i mention to Emirates Airlines that i have a 10 year relationship but not married?
Why would you bring your boyfriend, I dont' understand the issue I guess.
Whats the best thing for a hot married partying couple to do in Key West next week?
Were heading to Key west next weekend and have parasailing and waverunning planned. Were party people and love adventure, what do you suggest?Whats the best thing for a hot married partying couple to do in Key West next week?
You HAVE to go to a drag show, they are the best down there and make sure you sit in front because they are very involved with the crowd lolWhats the best thing for a hot married partying couple to do in Key West next week?
when are you going?
we are going weekend of 5/29 and would love to party with a hot couple.
what are you into?
we found a clothing optional pool and hot tub that looks like fun.
You HAVE to go to a drag show, they are the best down there and make sure you sit in front because they are very involved with the crowd lolWhats the best thing for a hot married partying couple to do in Key West next week?
when are you going?
we are going weekend of 5/29 and would love to party with a hot couple.
what are you into?
we found a clothing optional pool and hot tub that looks like fun.
Is it usual for married american women tennis players to call married men to play tennis?
(The woman in question has a husband that plays tennis and she is the one that call other men (married with non tennis players), not her husband.Is it usual for married american women tennis players to call married men to play tennis?
Well it al depends on how she acts around these other men. Maybe she just wants a wider variety of opponents? This could greatly enhance your game so give her the benefit of the doubt and ask HER about it, not us because she should have instilled a bit more faith in yourself and the husband, if he is not the same pereson?Is it usual for married american women tennis players to call married men to play tennis?
If she is serious about tennis and trying to improve her game she probably wants to a) play men, and b) play someone other than her husband. When you are very close to someone and play them a lot you do get familiar with their game and they with yours and your improvement tends to stagnate.
I guess she could take her husband with her...or suggest the other player brings his wife, but it sounds to me that its probably very innocent.
From personal experience, my husband and I do not play well together on the same side of the court. Maybe that's the dilemma she has. If she really likes mixed doubles, she should play against her hubby with another guy as her partner. ...that way, her intentions wont be misinterpreted. Most of the time it is innocent....just watch how she interacts with the guys she plays with til you're satisfied that no funny business is going on.
Assuming this is a straight question, and no alterior motives are inferred... there is no problem.
Most of my married girl friends that have husbands that do play, don't play well wtih them, like in mixed doubles. Im single, and I play with a married male partner. Most of us that play together are fairly long-term friends, male and female. We play 3-5 days a week in various combinations of singles, doubles, mixed doubles.
should ask the husband to go with her as well
Well it al depends on how she acts around these other men. Maybe she just wants a wider variety of opponents? This could greatly enhance your game so give her the benefit of the doubt and ask HER about it, not us because she should have instilled a bit more faith in yourself and the husband, if he is not the same pereson?Is it usual for married american women tennis players to call married men to play tennis?
If she is serious about tennis and trying to improve her game she probably wants to a) play men, and b) play someone other than her husband. When you are very close to someone and play them a lot you do get familiar with their game and they with yours and your improvement tends to stagnate.
I guess she could take her husband with her...or suggest the other player brings his wife, but it sounds to me that its probably very innocent.
From personal experience, my husband and I do not play well together on the same side of the court. Maybe that's the dilemma she has. If she really likes mixed doubles, she should play against her hubby with another guy as her partner. ...that way, her intentions wont be misinterpreted. Most of the time it is innocent....just watch how she interacts with the guys she plays with til you're satisfied that no funny business is going on.
Assuming this is a straight question, and no alterior motives are inferred... there is no problem.
Most of my married girl friends that have husbands that do play, don't play well wtih them, like in mixed doubles. Im single, and I play with a married male partner. Most of us that play together are fairly long-term friends, male and female. We play 3-5 days a week in various combinations of singles, doubles, mixed doubles.
should ask the husband to go with her as well
What the best way to find Married Women looking for fun?
I want to cheat on my wife and find married women who cheat. I have never done this before so I want to know the easiest way.What the best way to find Married Women looking for fun?
Go to hell, man w*ore!What the best way to find Married Women looking for fun?
Seriously, I like being helpful.
But I can't help myself.
Its people like you that are the reason I spent a month and a half in the psych ward. People like you are the reason I couldn't walk down the hall of my highschool without remembering whose mum my dad skrewed. People like you that are the reason my mother, my sister, and I went from seven or eight figures in the bank to $50 in a day.
Don't think about your own sick desires, think about the women's children. I hate families, but I would have given anything to preserve mine.
Um, First step, Grab your fist, Second is to thrust it at your northmost region, then your gut, Then your balls, In fact, Why don't you just cut off your junk, and MAYBE that will be almost enough to say Sorry for thinking evil vile thoughts,
If you don't want to be with her, Get a divorce, don't cheat on her, Your a son of a *****.
most free dating sites have catagoies for what your looking for. Sign up and start looking. Just dont use craigslist or you'll pay in the endfacial
Go to hell, man w*ore!What the best way to find Married Women looking for fun?
Seriously, I like being helpful.
But I can't help myself.
Its people like you that are the reason I spent a month and a half in the psych ward. People like you are the reason I couldn't walk down the hall of my highschool without remembering whose mum my dad skrewed. People like you that are the reason my mother, my sister, and I went from seven or eight figures in the bank to $50 in a day.
Don't think about your own sick desires, think about the women's children. I hate families, but I would have given anything to preserve mine.
Um, First step, Grab your fist, Second is to thrust it at your northmost region, then your gut, Then your balls, In fact, Why don't you just cut off your junk, and MAYBE that will be almost enough to say Sorry for thinking evil vile thoughts,
If you don't want to be with her, Get a divorce, don't cheat on her, Your a son of a *****.
most free dating sites have catagoies for what your looking for. Sign up and start looking. Just dont use craigslist or you'll pay in the end
What are the consequences for getting married to a illegal in there country?
If a U.S. citizen gets married to a illegal alien in the illegals country so they can get their green card what are the consequences? also if you do get married what is the divorce like, can they take you to the ';cleaners'; like they could if you were married in the U.S. to a U.S. citizen?What are the consequences for getting married to a illegal in there country?
they aren't 'an illegal' if they're living in their own country! There are no consequences to someone marrying an American..
If the couple decide to move to America, they must apply for the foreigner to get a visa while they are still in their country and before they arrive in the USA. It's a long process. Once they have completed several forms, spent the money to process them etc. they will be interviewed by a Us immigration officer to verify that they are really married and not just marrying to secure a visa. If they pass this, they will get a visa and be allowed to enter the USA together. I really does take a while though.
The consequences of getting divorced depend on where the divorce is and what the laws of that country are for divorce. Usually anything you owned before you got married is yours and anything you got after you were married can be contested as being owned by both people unless there are clear receipts to show it was bought by one of them. If this couple moved to the USA and divorced there, the foreigners visa would be removed since that would have been the condition of their entry. If they have lived there a long time, or have children, they could apply for a green card to remain, even if divorced. But you wouldn't get a green card just for marrying and moving to the USA at first - you'd get a visa with conditions and it needs renewed after 2 years to make sure they're still married.What are the consequences for getting married to a illegal in there country?
Are you referring to an illegal alien who has either been deported or returned voluntarily to their own country? If the person has been in the US illegally, they are barred from re-entry, and not even marriage will get them back into the US. The US citizen-spouse would have to wait until the bar had expired before submitting the application for a spousal visa.
If you marry someone for the purpose of immigration, that is ';marriage fraud.'; The foreign partner gets deported and barred from re-entry. The US citizen partner gets up to 10 years plus a $250,000 fine.
A great many foreigners who marry US citizens ';take them to the cleaners.'; Fraud is rampant. Many US citizens discover they are just being used after the marriage takes place and they suffer physically, emotionally, and above all financially for their mistake.
they can take you to the cleaners! if you marry an illegal you have to remain married for a certain period of time b/c of the green card.
they aren't 'an illegal' if they're living in their own country! There are no consequences to someone marrying an American..
If the couple decide to move to America, they must apply for the foreigner to get a visa while they are still in their country and before they arrive in the USA. It's a long process. Once they have completed several forms, spent the money to process them etc. they will be interviewed by a Us immigration officer to verify that they are really married and not just marrying to secure a visa. If they pass this, they will get a visa and be allowed to enter the USA together. I really does take a while though.
The consequences of getting divorced depend on where the divorce is and what the laws of that country are for divorce. Usually anything you owned before you got married is yours and anything you got after you were married can be contested as being owned by both people unless there are clear receipts to show it was bought by one of them. If this couple moved to the USA and divorced there, the foreigners visa would be removed since that would have been the condition of their entry. If they have lived there a long time, or have children, they could apply for a green card to remain, even if divorced. But you wouldn't get a green card just for marrying and moving to the USA at first - you'd get a visa with conditions and it needs renewed after 2 years to make sure they're still married.What are the consequences for getting married to a illegal in there country?
Are you referring to an illegal alien who has either been deported or returned voluntarily to their own country? If the person has been in the US illegally, they are barred from re-entry, and not even marriage will get them back into the US. The US citizen-spouse would have to wait until the bar had expired before submitting the application for a spousal visa.
If you marry someone for the purpose of immigration, that is ';marriage fraud.'; The foreign partner gets deported and barred from re-entry. The US citizen partner gets up to 10 years plus a $250,000 fine.
A great many foreigners who marry US citizens ';take them to the cleaners.'; Fraud is rampant. Many US citizens discover they are just being used after the marriage takes place and they suffer physically, emotionally, and above all financially for their mistake.
they can take you to the cleaners! if you marry an illegal you have to remain married for a certain period of time b/c of the green card.
How easy is it to get married in Thailand?
How much does it cost and how long does it take to do all the official documentation in Bangkok? And does it have to be in Bangkok or can it be done in Krabi?How easy is it to get married in Thailand?
It really depends on what nationality both of you are. I believe at least one of you are not Thai so for any foreigner you must go to your embassy in Bangkok and follow the procedures they will provide for you. Below is an example from the US embassy.
Marriage in Thailand
A legal marriage in Thailand consists of both parties registering their marriage in person with the local Thai Amphur (Civil Registry Office). The United States does recognize the validity of such a marriage. For American citizens marrying either Thai citizens or another American citizen, the procedure is the same. For Americans marrying a third-country national, their prospective spouse must also follow a similar procedure with their own embassy.
Procedure
1. Complete an affidavit at the U.S. Embassy. The affidavit form, available in our office or you may download a copy of the form here, includes all of the information required by relevant Thai law. The form must be completed and notarized at the Embassy. The notarial fee is $30. To make an appointment for a notarial, please click here.
2. Have the notarized affidavit translated. Click here for a list of translators in the Bangkok area.
3. Take the affidavit and translation to:
Legalization Division
Department of Consular Affairs
Ministry of Foreign Affairs
3rd Floor, 123 Chaeng Wattana Road
Tung Song Hong, Laksi District, Bangkok
Tel:(02) 575-1057-8, Fax:(02) 575-1054
4. Take the affidavit and supporting documents to a local Amphur and register yourselves as married. The Amphur will also require the following documents:
Your American passport;
Identification for the other party, such as a Thai citizen's identification card;
If either party is under the age of twenty, written permission from the parents (with Thai translation);
If either you or your fiance have been previously married the Amphur will want to see proof that prior marriages have been terminated; either divorce or death certificates. These documents, if available, should be translated into Thai prior to presentation at the Amphur.
Yes you can register the marriage in Krabi or any Amphur in Thailand.
The cost will depend on each situation but figure for each foreigner about 6,000 to 8,000 baht depending on what needs to be translated and how much of a fee you want to faster service.How easy is it to get married in Thailand?
If your both Thai you just go to the Amphur Office and register
(I pretty sure your not because you would already know this)
If you are a foreigner and you want a legal marriage you'll have to register with your embassy and with the Ministry of Foreign Affairs in Bangkok. (If your both foreign then you'll each have to go to your respective embassies).
Costs for registering at the Embassy, converting documents to Thai (including copies of divorce certificates for previous marriages) registering at the MFA and transportation will run about 7000 bath ($200 US) and can be done in one day (if you pay for expediting at the MFA) or two days if you don't.
Having your marriage recorded at the Amphur (District Office) is free. There is no need/requirement for a ceremony.
Make sure to make several copies of all documents and have multiple passport style pictures available.
Very easy but always a bad idea.
You have no rights as a foreigner married or not
It really depends on what nationality both of you are. I believe at least one of you are not Thai so for any foreigner you must go to your embassy in Bangkok and follow the procedures they will provide for you. Below is an example from the US embassy.
Marriage in Thailand
A legal marriage in Thailand consists of both parties registering their marriage in person with the local Thai Amphur (Civil Registry Office). The United States does recognize the validity of such a marriage. For American citizens marrying either Thai citizens or another American citizen, the procedure is the same. For Americans marrying a third-country national, their prospective spouse must also follow a similar procedure with their own embassy.
Procedure
1. Complete an affidavit at the U.S. Embassy. The affidavit form, available in our office or you may download a copy of the form here, includes all of the information required by relevant Thai law. The form must be completed and notarized at the Embassy. The notarial fee is $30. To make an appointment for a notarial, please click here.
2. Have the notarized affidavit translated. Click here for a list of translators in the Bangkok area.
3. Take the affidavit and translation to:
Legalization Division
Department of Consular Affairs
Ministry of Foreign Affairs
3rd Floor, 123 Chaeng Wattana Road
Tung Song Hong, Laksi District, Bangkok
Tel:(02) 575-1057-8, Fax:(02) 575-1054
4. Take the affidavit and supporting documents to a local Amphur and register yourselves as married. The Amphur will also require the following documents:
Your American passport;
Identification for the other party, such as a Thai citizen's identification card;
If either party is under the age of twenty, written permission from the parents (with Thai translation);
If either you or your fiance have been previously married the Amphur will want to see proof that prior marriages have been terminated; either divorce or death certificates. These documents, if available, should be translated into Thai prior to presentation at the Amphur.
Yes you can register the marriage in Krabi or any Amphur in Thailand.
The cost will depend on each situation but figure for each foreigner about 6,000 to 8,000 baht depending on what needs to be translated and how much of a fee you want to faster service.How easy is it to get married in Thailand?
If your both Thai you just go to the Amphur Office and register
(I pretty sure your not because you would already know this)
If you are a foreigner and you want a legal marriage you'll have to register with your embassy and with the Ministry of Foreign Affairs in Bangkok. (If your both foreign then you'll each have to go to your respective embassies).
Costs for registering at the Embassy, converting documents to Thai (including copies of divorce certificates for previous marriages) registering at the MFA and transportation will run about 7000 bath ($200 US) and can be done in one day (if you pay for expediting at the MFA) or two days if you don't.
Having your marriage recorded at the Amphur (District Office) is free. There is no need/requirement for a ceremony.
Make sure to make several copies of all documents and have multiple passport style pictures available.
Very easy but always a bad idea.
You have no rights as a foreigner married or not
Can we get a registrar come to the marriage hall instead of getting married in the register office?
My friend is getting married to a guy who is of another religion. Their parents have given their blessings but both of them do not want to get married in either of the religious method. So they decided to get married in a register office. But if there is a possibility for the registrar to come to the marriage hall and complete the formalities they would be pleased. Is this possible?Can we get a registrar come to the marriage hall instead of getting married in the register office?
of course, you just have to find a registrar who will (not all will do it). i recommend getting the license, %26amp; asking a JP, judge or town clerk to marry them... they'll go anywhere local.Can we get a registrar come to the marriage hall instead of getting married in the register office?
what Meg said is true, also in places like vegas and Reno they are all non denominational... some of the hotels, the big ones like Luxor, Excalibur etc has beautiful ';chapels'; and great wedding package were everything is included no fuss at a great price... i had a Beautiful wedding and it was under 1500 dollars.
there is no need of marriage hall it is just waste of money .
life of the couples is not depend upon the marriage hall it depends upon their love %26amp; affection.so register office is enough to get married
Yes its possible . U just need to find a registrar who is free on that particular date and willing to *** .
U may need to arrange the transport for him .
Hi
Yeah , sure you just have to give some extra money
Cheers
of course, you just have to find a registrar who will (not all will do it). i recommend getting the license, %26amp; asking a JP, judge or town clerk to marry them... they'll go anywhere local.Can we get a registrar come to the marriage hall instead of getting married in the register office?
what Meg said is true, also in places like vegas and Reno they are all non denominational... some of the hotels, the big ones like Luxor, Excalibur etc has beautiful ';chapels'; and great wedding package were everything is included no fuss at a great price... i had a Beautiful wedding and it was under 1500 dollars.
there is no need of marriage hall it is just waste of money .
life of the couples is not depend upon the marriage hall it depends upon their love %26amp; affection.so register office is enough to get married
Yes its possible . U just need to find a registrar who is free on that particular date and willing to *** .
U may need to arrange the transport for him .
Hi
Yeah , sure you just have to give some extra money
Cheers
Any high school sweethearts that are married or engaged, or still together?
I want to know how many of you have had a bf or gf since high school, and that are now married engaged or simply still together. Oh and how many years, and hows its going.Any high school sweethearts that are married or engaged, or still together?
i have 2 friends that married their boyfriends from high school. that has been 20 years ago. and they were both married as soon as they graduated high school. so both have been married 20 years, each has 3 children, too. both girls were from small towns, if that makes any differenceAny high school sweethearts that are married or engaged, or still together?
Okay, strap in because I have a list for you:
My grandparents grew up together and have been married for 60 years. My grandma says that they still have sex (and she still likes it) eew.
My parents have been married for 40 years. They grew up together and my Dad used to throw rotten oranges at my Mom when they were in Elementary school. They started dating in High school.
My husband and I started dating when I was a sophomore in High school. We have been married for 12 years and together for 17. We are happier than ever.
It is rare, and we are in the minority, but it does happen.
It's rare, but possible. I've dated my husband since we were 15. Together 11 years, married almost 8. And, yes. Happy!
BUT it is hard, was hard, in the beginning. Marriage, regardless of the age is hard. It takes work, and two people willing to do it. It's better to gauge the loyalty and dedication in two people then the age.
We started dating when he was 17 (senior in HS) and I was 19. Technically he wasn't my hs sweetheart but I was his :-) We've been together now for just over 12 years (married 6 1/2)
We know quite a few people who were together in hs and that are still together and happy now. In fact one of my friends and her husband just celebrated their 22nd anniversary and they are only 40. Impressive I think.
I have been married the last 5 years to my high school boyfriend. We are expecting baby #4 and have been through hell and back but everything in life worth having is worth fighting for.
I had a friend in high school and we graduated in 1988...she dated a guy starting in their freshman year......they are still together now and are married and have a few children. They are VERY happy!!!
I'm with someone I've known since high school. We weren't really high school sweethearts, but we were friends. We've been married for two years and together for seven.
Well, it's not me, but I have a friend that married his high school sweetheart %26amp; they are soon to have their 30th anniversary! That's pretty amazing these days. :~)
i have 2 friends that married their boyfriends from high school. that has been 20 years ago. and they were both married as soon as they graduated high school. so both have been married 20 years, each has 3 children, too. both girls were from small towns, if that makes any differenceAny high school sweethearts that are married or engaged, or still together?
Okay, strap in because I have a list for you:
My grandparents grew up together and have been married for 60 years. My grandma says that they still have sex (and she still likes it) eew.
My parents have been married for 40 years. They grew up together and my Dad used to throw rotten oranges at my Mom when they were in Elementary school. They started dating in High school.
My husband and I started dating when I was a sophomore in High school. We have been married for 12 years and together for 17. We are happier than ever.
It is rare, and we are in the minority, but it does happen.
It's rare, but possible. I've dated my husband since we were 15. Together 11 years, married almost 8. And, yes. Happy!
BUT it is hard, was hard, in the beginning. Marriage, regardless of the age is hard. It takes work, and two people willing to do it. It's better to gauge the loyalty and dedication in two people then the age.
We started dating when he was 17 (senior in HS) and I was 19. Technically he wasn't my hs sweetheart but I was his :-) We've been together now for just over 12 years (married 6 1/2)
We know quite a few people who were together in hs and that are still together and happy now. In fact one of my friends and her husband just celebrated their 22nd anniversary and they are only 40. Impressive I think.
I have been married the last 5 years to my high school boyfriend. We are expecting baby #4 and have been through hell and back but everything in life worth having is worth fighting for.
I had a friend in high school and we graduated in 1988...she dated a guy starting in their freshman year......they are still together now and are married and have a few children. They are VERY happy!!!
I'm with someone I've known since high school. We weren't really high school sweethearts, but we were friends. We've been married for two years and together for seven.
Well, it's not me, but I have a friend that married his high school sweetheart %26amp; they are soon to have their 30th anniversary! That's pretty amazing these days. :~)
How long should you be married before you start having affairs?
Silly......you shouldn't have affairs!
You idiot.How long should you be married before you start having affairs?
I just have to say I think it is so damn funny that almost all of the women answering this think a guy wrote it. Who knows, you could be a woman.
Anyway, it sounds like you don't want a divorce, probably because you are being well taken care of financially which, odds are, makes you a money-grubbing gold-digger. Also, your not being taken care of in the bedroom.
So, you should start having one as soon as possible. If you do, do it with someone who has more money that your spouse, that way if your caught and they try to divorce you, you can still take half of the assets with you while your still banging some other rich person.
HA, you win if you get caught or not. How long should you be married before you start having affairs?
You're obviously either:
1. serious, which makes you a total loser or
2. posted a stupid question just looking to get a laugh
But just for the record, it depends on what kind of person you want to be.
If you want to be a person of good values, morals, character and integrity that can be admired, loved and respected then the answer is obvious, you would never cheat!
If you want to be a self absorbed jerk who thinks only of yourself not caring about your spouse or the individual you mix up in the whole mess with an affair then the answer is go get help now!!! There are profesionals out there to help people like you!
Have a great day!
This one falls on you.If your unhappy with that person dont be with them plain and simple.Just get a divorce,but remember others you will hurt in the process of being selfish will hurt others.Think this one through.I would advise not to have a affair.
If you cannot commit to one person and make that vow to be faithful, then you shouldn't be married.
You DON'T have affairs after you are married. Stay single. And if you are married now, divorce her before you have the affair.
What kind of question is this? O.k. let me see, start having them as soon as you say i do!!! Get real... If you think like that jsut don't get married and if you are already married do her a favor and divorce her.
You should first figure out your spouses routines. Are they likely to come home from work early? Where do they eat lunch, etc. You'll get a feel for it, just give it time.
well, do you mean before or after the reception? LOL
Why ask? successful affairs are the ones kept secret.
What kind of answer are you seriously expecting with a question like that ?????
You should do that before you get married, then tell her so she can get out in time.
Wait for the 7 year itch.
Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha!
You SHOULDN'T. Don't f*cking get married if that's your mentality on it, damn.
If you wanted the single life, you never should have gotten married.. you poor wife.
You shouldn't have affairs at all once your married.
As God said to Noah: How long can you tread water?
Bill Cosby
You should not have got married! WTF
I would say at least a year.
Man you sound like such a great catch! I wish my husband thought more like you.
Asshole
When your married you shouldn't have affairs!
What's wrong with you!?
D*ck
You sounds like a WONDERFUL husband!!!
Get a life!
That is a Freaked up question dude!
thanks for the 2 points! a**hole
Did no one explain that Maid of Honor thing to you?
Never!
You will ruin your whole life!
one week.
what?!??! Are you serious?!!?!?!
Right after the best man speech!
**** *** **** *** asshole
let me see a good time to cheat is NEVER
You idiot.How long should you be married before you start having affairs?
I just have to say I think it is so damn funny that almost all of the women answering this think a guy wrote it. Who knows, you could be a woman.
Anyway, it sounds like you don't want a divorce, probably because you are being well taken care of financially which, odds are, makes you a money-grubbing gold-digger. Also, your not being taken care of in the bedroom.
So, you should start having one as soon as possible. If you do, do it with someone who has more money that your spouse, that way if your caught and they try to divorce you, you can still take half of the assets with you while your still banging some other rich person.
HA, you win if you get caught or not. How long should you be married before you start having affairs?
You're obviously either:
1. serious, which makes you a total loser or
2. posted a stupid question just looking to get a laugh
But just for the record, it depends on what kind of person you want to be.
If you want to be a person of good values, morals, character and integrity that can be admired, loved and respected then the answer is obvious, you would never cheat!
If you want to be a self absorbed jerk who thinks only of yourself not caring about your spouse or the individual you mix up in the whole mess with an affair then the answer is go get help now!!! There are profesionals out there to help people like you!
Have a great day!
This one falls on you.If your unhappy with that person dont be with them plain and simple.Just get a divorce,but remember others you will hurt in the process of being selfish will hurt others.Think this one through.I would advise not to have a affair.
If you cannot commit to one person and make that vow to be faithful, then you shouldn't be married.
You DON'T have affairs after you are married. Stay single. And if you are married now, divorce her before you have the affair.
What kind of question is this? O.k. let me see, start having them as soon as you say i do!!! Get real... If you think like that jsut don't get married and if you are already married do her a favor and divorce her.
You should first figure out your spouses routines. Are they likely to come home from work early? Where do they eat lunch, etc. You'll get a feel for it, just give it time.
well, do you mean before or after the reception? LOL
Why ask? successful affairs are the ones kept secret.
What kind of answer are you seriously expecting with a question like that ?????
You should do that before you get married, then tell her so she can get out in time.
Wait for the 7 year itch.
Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha!
You SHOULDN'T. Don't f*cking get married if that's your mentality on it, damn.
If you wanted the single life, you never should have gotten married.. you poor wife.
You shouldn't have affairs at all once your married.
As God said to Noah: How long can you tread water?
Bill Cosby
You should not have got married! WTF
I would say at least a year.
Man you sound like such a great catch! I wish my husband thought more like you.
Asshole
When your married you shouldn't have affairs!
What's wrong with you!?
D*ck
You sounds like a WONDERFUL husband!!!
Get a life!
That is a Freaked up question dude!
thanks for the 2 points! a**hole
Did no one explain that Maid of Honor thing to you?
Never!
You will ruin your whole life!
one week.
what?!??! Are you serious?!!?!?!
Right after the best man speech!
**** *** **** *** asshole
let me see a good time to cheat is NEVER
Does anyone know of any beautiful catholic churches in Sydney to get married in?
My fiance and I are having our reception on a boat in the city and are currently looking at churches to have our ceremony in. We would prefer something closer in to the city. Does anyone have any thoughts or experiences they would like to share in regards to St Mark's Drummoyne or Villa Maria/St Peter Chanel at Hunters Hill? We would like to be able to comfortably seat approximately 200 people. Any suggestions?Does anyone know of any beautiful catholic churches in Sydney to get married in?
You should check in advance. Catholic Churches in many countries aren't available for 'rental.' You either have to be a member of the church or a celebrity with lots of moolah to donate to the church.Does anyone know of any beautiful catholic churches in Sydney to get married in?
I agree with the above answer.. some Catholic churches can be really strict... but here are some around that area:
- www.sydney.catholic.org.au - (02) 9438 1011
- www.acbc.catholic.org.au - (02) 9261 4844
- www.ccr.org.au - (02) 9810 2499
- www.sydney.catholic.org.au - (02) 9698 2869
- www.ccdsydney.catholic.edu.au - (02) 9181 1795
- www.military.catholic.org.au - (02) 9713 7960 - More
all are fairly big... God bless.facial
You should check in advance. Catholic Churches in many countries aren't available for 'rental.' You either have to be a member of the church or a celebrity with lots of moolah to donate to the church.Does anyone know of any beautiful catholic churches in Sydney to get married in?
I agree with the above answer.. some Catholic churches can be really strict... but here are some around that area:
- www.sydney.catholic.org.au - (02) 9438 1011
- www.acbc.catholic.org.au - (02) 9261 4844
- www.ccr.org.au - (02) 9810 2499
- www.sydney.catholic.org.au - (02) 9698 2869
- www.ccdsydney.catholic.edu.au - (02) 9181 1795
- www.military.catholic.org.au - (02) 9713 7960 - More
all are fairly big... God bless.
What needs to change in your work tax forms when you get married?
I just got married and wonder if I need to update any tax forms at work? I'd like to keep everything as is but wonder what are anyrequired changes? Obviously I'll let HR know of my last name change and that I'm married but do I need to change any type of reporting?What needs to change in your work tax forms when you get married?
You should go to the IRS website and use their withholding calculator to compute what your W-4 allowances should be.
As a general rule, if both spouses work, its wise to have both of you claim single on your W-4 to avoid having too little tax withheld, and owing money come tax time.
Its not a good idea to have too much taxes withheld, because you're making an interest free loan to the IRS, but its best to error on the side of too much rather than too little, unless you're prepared for a tax bill in April.What needs to change in your work tax forms when you get married?
You might want to change your W-4, but it could be a good idea to leave it as it is until you see how it works out this year. Yours probably says ';single'; now. It's not illegal if you just leave it that way - if you change, would be a good idea to check ';married, but withhold at higher single rate';.
You should go to the IRS website and use their withholding calculator to compute what your W-4 allowances should be.
As a general rule, if both spouses work, its wise to have both of you claim single on your W-4 to avoid having too little tax withheld, and owing money come tax time.
Its not a good idea to have too much taxes withheld, because you're making an interest free loan to the IRS, but its best to error on the side of too much rather than too little, unless you're prepared for a tax bill in April.What needs to change in your work tax forms when you get married?
You might want to change your W-4, but it could be a good idea to leave it as it is until you see how it works out this year. Yours probably says ';single'; now. It's not illegal if you just leave it that way - if you change, would be a good idea to check ';married, but withhold at higher single rate';.
Where is the best place to file immigration papers once you get married. GEORGIA OR FLORIDA ?
My fiance is living in Georgia but she is working in Florida. I work in Florida too.Where is the best place to file immigration papers once you get married. GEORGIA OR FLORIDA ?
USCIS only has 4 service centers in the US. Both Georgia and Florida applications get sent to Texas.
USCIS only has 4 service centers in the US. Both Georgia and Florida applications get sent to Texas.
How do the Sodomites getting ';married'; in California interpret the following biblical verse?
';God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.';
Romans 1:26-27 NIVHow do the Sodomites getting ';married'; in California interpret the following biblical verse?
its really simple they do not care what the Bible says...they do not live by Gods word Living or Inspired
Romans1;24,32(KJV)
[24] Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
[25] Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
[26] For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
[27] And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
[28] And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
[29] Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
[30] Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
[31] Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
[32] Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.
it says, God gave them up....
always nosnodHow do the Sodomites getting ';married'; in California interpret the following biblical verse?
Use only KJV. niv strips the Lord of His Deity in 140 places. Also strips out sodomy because of the sodomites on the committee: Proverbs 10:31. One is already in the flames of Hell!
(“Holocaust Survivor: molested by Guards,”The Massachusetts News, April 5, 2000)
http://www.abidingtruth.com/pf…
http://360.yahoo.com/mgtenter9…
http://nextaxpro.spaces.live.c…
http://360.yahoo.com/mgtenter9…
http://nextaxpro.spaces.live.c…
http://www.jesus-is-savior.com…
http://www.jesus-is-savior.com…
They don't believe in the Bible, and the verse actually applies to them.
California is a sick place and should volunteer to seced from the union, with a stipulation that it must volunteer to do so. I live in Nevada and I no longer appreciate having this state as a neighbor.
Even in Las Vegas, people aren't that corrupt and they have basic decency and sense.
Most people don't know this because the liberal media is hiding it, but there's an amendment going on to thwart gay so-called marriage throughout the land. I'll be posting in on here shortly and I urge everyone to sign it.
They dont' care what the bible says. I had a ';friend'; who told me he was gay and when I disapproved, he trashed talked me to every single person on my contact list, and spent 5 years posting **** about me online, creating a webpage on who I was, and pretending to be my friend, so that I would divulge more personal information about myself that he could use against me. I would say he spent about 2 hours a day explaining to the whole world why he hated my guts, and why I was worthless as a human being. I believe that every gay person is a slave to fear, and terrified of social rejection and this is because the same God who cleanses us from irrational, self defeating, man made fears, also cleanses us from emotions and dispositions that run contrary to how he created us.
The bible has been around for so long and I am sure, that they would have read this. The fact that they are getting ';married'; shows what they think of it.
I believe in Live and Let Live, but I feel that ';their rights'; are being put above what ';normal'; people think is right. Yes, I know, everyone is going to call me a intolerent pig....but, why is that we have to be ';sensitive'; to their needs, and no one gives 2 hoots about, how ';wrong';, I think it is.
There is a large ';gay church'; in Dallas called the ';Cathedral of Hope.'; I recall that several years ago a snippet of one of their ';sermons'; was aired on a local TV station news program. The ';minister,'; a lesbian, said from the pulpit, ';Do you want to know what Jesus said about homosexuality?'; The audience sat in silent anticipation as the minister stood equally silent staring into the audience. After perhaps a few seconds when the point of the remark began to soak in that Jesus actually said nothing directly concerning homosexuality, the audience got louder and louder with applause and cheers apparently thinking that since Jesus was never recorded as actually saying the word ';homosexuality'; they were all somehow excused from all reference to it in the Bible. I think those who are gay and feel somewhat of a Christian persuasion would most likely be of that same convoluted mindset.
They just turn a blind eye to the verse because it suits them to do so. The need for anyone to insert their private parts into excreta to obtain feelings of love says it all. There can be no criticism of this statement because it's 100% true.
They probably interpret it as the ramblings of some zealot translated a half dozen times over a few hundred years by other zealots.....like every other educated person in the world.
They don't believe in God or the Bible. Isn't that obvious? Under God, they are not, and never will be MARRIED. Let them live with THAT, here, and in the after-life.
Let them be, for your own peace of mind, (unless they are harming children), for it is God who is their Judge.
The same manner by which you interpret ';Judge not, lest ye be judged.'; They ignore it. How about worrying about our own lives and actions for a change, the things WE are responsible for, and let God judge the other people?
Damn Republican devils, it started in Massachusetts and it's spread across the country it even visited the White House with Jeff Gannon. What will we do, what will we do? Even Senator Craig has been infected.
They have made attempts to spin it to other meanings. None of the twists and turns work though. We know how to read and we understand indecent acts. Its a sick sick world.
Oh, they either have no conscience and love for God, or they deny what the Bible truly means. Those who call themselves Christians and yet do these things are in total denial.
Probably give it about as much attention as they would any other work of fiction or questionable authorship. Live and let live.
They don't---only people living 2500 years ago in a jewish community would.
Why would they bother? Not everybody signed on to abide by YOUR bible. Ever think of that?
Why would they even care what the bible says.
whats the ';bible'; Ive never read that one. i must have a look for it next time I have nothing to do while browsing the fiction stand at the airport.
Romans 1:26-27 NIVHow do the Sodomites getting ';married'; in California interpret the following biblical verse?
its really simple they do not care what the Bible says...they do not live by Gods word Living or Inspired
Romans1;24,32(KJV)
[24] Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
[25] Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
[26] For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
[27] And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
[28] And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
[29] Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
[30] Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
[31] Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
[32] Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.
it says, God gave them up....
always nosnodHow do the Sodomites getting ';married'; in California interpret the following biblical verse?
Use only KJV. niv strips the Lord of His Deity in 140 places. Also strips out sodomy because of the sodomites on the committee: Proverbs 10:31. One is already in the flames of Hell!
Report Abuse
(“Holocaust Survivor: molested by Guards,”The Massachusetts News, April 5, 2000)
http://www.abidingtruth.com/pf…
http://360.yahoo.com/mgtenter9…
http://nextaxpro.spaces.live.c…
Report Abuse
http://360.yahoo.com/mgtenter9…
http://nextaxpro.spaces.live.c…
http://www.jesus-is-savior.com…
http://www.jesus-is-savior.com…
Report Abuse
They don't believe in the Bible, and the verse actually applies to them.
California is a sick place and should volunteer to seced from the union, with a stipulation that it must volunteer to do so. I live in Nevada and I no longer appreciate having this state as a neighbor.
Even in Las Vegas, people aren't that corrupt and they have basic decency and sense.
Most people don't know this because the liberal media is hiding it, but there's an amendment going on to thwart gay so-called marriage throughout the land. I'll be posting in on here shortly and I urge everyone to sign it.
They dont' care what the bible says. I had a ';friend'; who told me he was gay and when I disapproved, he trashed talked me to every single person on my contact list, and spent 5 years posting **** about me online, creating a webpage on who I was, and pretending to be my friend, so that I would divulge more personal information about myself that he could use against me. I would say he spent about 2 hours a day explaining to the whole world why he hated my guts, and why I was worthless as a human being. I believe that every gay person is a slave to fear, and terrified of social rejection and this is because the same God who cleanses us from irrational, self defeating, man made fears, also cleanses us from emotions and dispositions that run contrary to how he created us.
The bible has been around for so long and I am sure, that they would have read this. The fact that they are getting ';married'; shows what they think of it.
I believe in Live and Let Live, but I feel that ';their rights'; are being put above what ';normal'; people think is right. Yes, I know, everyone is going to call me a intolerent pig....but, why is that we have to be ';sensitive'; to their needs, and no one gives 2 hoots about, how ';wrong';, I think it is.
There is a large ';gay church'; in Dallas called the ';Cathedral of Hope.'; I recall that several years ago a snippet of one of their ';sermons'; was aired on a local TV station news program. The ';minister,'; a lesbian, said from the pulpit, ';Do you want to know what Jesus said about homosexuality?'; The audience sat in silent anticipation as the minister stood equally silent staring into the audience. After perhaps a few seconds when the point of the remark began to soak in that Jesus actually said nothing directly concerning homosexuality, the audience got louder and louder with applause and cheers apparently thinking that since Jesus was never recorded as actually saying the word ';homosexuality'; they were all somehow excused from all reference to it in the Bible. I think those who are gay and feel somewhat of a Christian persuasion would most likely be of that same convoluted mindset.
They just turn a blind eye to the verse because it suits them to do so. The need for anyone to insert their private parts into excreta to obtain feelings of love says it all. There can be no criticism of this statement because it's 100% true.
They probably interpret it as the ramblings of some zealot translated a half dozen times over a few hundred years by other zealots.....like every other educated person in the world.
They don't believe in God or the Bible. Isn't that obvious? Under God, they are not, and never will be MARRIED. Let them live with THAT, here, and in the after-life.
Let them be, for your own peace of mind, (unless they are harming children), for it is God who is their Judge.
The same manner by which you interpret ';Judge not, lest ye be judged.'; They ignore it. How about worrying about our own lives and actions for a change, the things WE are responsible for, and let God judge the other people?
Damn Republican devils, it started in Massachusetts and it's spread across the country it even visited the White House with Jeff Gannon. What will we do, what will we do? Even Senator Craig has been infected.
They have made attempts to spin it to other meanings. None of the twists and turns work though. We know how to read and we understand indecent acts. Its a sick sick world.
Oh, they either have no conscience and love for God, or they deny what the Bible truly means. Those who call themselves Christians and yet do these things are in total denial.
Probably give it about as much attention as they would any other work of fiction or questionable authorship. Live and let live.
They don't---only people living 2500 years ago in a jewish community would.
Why would they bother? Not everybody signed on to abide by YOUR bible. Ever think of that?
Why would they even care what the bible says.
whats the ';bible'; Ive never read that one. i must have a look for it next time I have nothing to do while browsing the fiction stand at the airport.
Should young military personnel get married while in the military?
Hi I wondering, should the miltary actively discourage marriage for young military personnel while in the military? It seems unfair for young families to move constantly, and when their spouse is on active duty, the long periods of seperation has tremondous strain on a marriage. Depending on the service, there could be a continous amount of seperation time due to deployment schedules. And not including the huge financial stresses, along with the added stress of having children, would it be wise for the military to actively suggest young couples to wait till they serve their service before marriage?Should young military personnel get married while in the military?
I do know that they do encourage counseling for E1-E3. And young spouses are encouraged to attend briefings on financial management, AF 101, HeartLink (intro briefing), etc. Us more experienced spouses also tend to take them under our wings and help them.
As one who grew up as a military brat and then married an airman, I really don't see it as ';unfair';. Before I was 10 I had lived in 3 different countries, spoke 2 languages, and could adapt to just about anything. My girls are experiencing the same thing. They've lived and traveled all over Europe, speak German, seen places and been places that many people NEVER see in their lifetime. We prepare ourselves and the girls for moves so that it's an adventure, not a hardship. And we prepare for separations. We spend extra time together, we write letters, we get together with others who are also separated, .....
As for waiting, hubby and I waited until he put on E4. If we had waited until he got out, we'd still be waiting, 19 years later!!Should young military personnel get married while in the military?
I am a military wife. We have 3 kids. Yes there are deployments where we are separated but the Army provides many ways we can communicate (phone, email, letters etc). I personally can't imagine being a civilian wife again-the kids like being army brats too-in fact my 16 year old is joing the Marines whens when he graduates. I can't imagine raising our kids as a civilian family anymore-it is actully easier raising a family while in the military i think.
Currently the military Encourages young military personnel to get married because they get paid more and get better living conditions if they get married.
I think the military should pay single and married Soldiers the same so they can make their own decisions without government intervention.
My husband is a lifer and I can't imagine him never being allowed to marry. We married young but we both knew what we were getting into. He has just returned from a year long deployment; it was challenging but something we voluntarily took on. If people love each other and are COMMITED to be together until death, no matter the circumstances, then military duties, or not they should be allowed to marry.
this is an individual decision
you must weigh pros and cons
it could be the best possible choice, depending on the persons
No the Army has enough things they regulate for soldiers that they can't tell someone to not get married. The soldier should talk with the person he/she is marrying about the hardships they will be facing when they get married.
I would say maybe people should look into it more because sometime soldiers get married for the wrong reasons.
My husband and I were dual military with a child and we had always made the best of the situation. Since I have been out it still isn't that bad.
The military offers alot of support.
It takes a very strong person to be a military spouse. I wouldn't give it up for anything.
My niece is going through that right now.
She was born and raised in So. Cal. Married her HS sweetheart who joined the military and was promptly transferred to a military base back east where we have no family. Once he got on base, he was temporarily transferred for training to a base in the South, leaving my niece by herself in a state where she doesn't know anyone.
And she is the epitome of a spoiled southern California girl who knows very little about the rest of the world.
I think she should have waited to get married until his training was done and impending deployment to Iraq (everyone goes nowadays) was completed.
I have to wonder if she is thinking the same thing now.
Absolutely not.People should get that kind of guidance from their families,pastors,friends,etc...not from an employer and def not from the government.
For the record:
I am an Air Force wife of only 4 years but he's not been deployed yet and we were only separated for basic training and tech school(a few months total).
So if someone's going to be in the military for 20 years, they shouldn't get married til they're 40? That's silly. Marriage is hard, in the military, outside the military.. young people getting married usually is a bad idea, but people are going to do it. There's nothing unfair in families moving, or deployments, etc.. That's just part of the deal. Some people can hack it, some people cannot.
My 22 year old brother eloped this summer as he recognized that he get more rewards for being married than not from housing benefits etc. I doubt they discourage it.
I don't think older military people should get married either...its just not worth it. They can alway adopt kids when they retire.
I do know that they do encourage counseling for E1-E3. And young spouses are encouraged to attend briefings on financial management, AF 101, HeartLink (intro briefing), etc. Us more experienced spouses also tend to take them under our wings and help them.
As one who grew up as a military brat and then married an airman, I really don't see it as ';unfair';. Before I was 10 I had lived in 3 different countries, spoke 2 languages, and could adapt to just about anything. My girls are experiencing the same thing. They've lived and traveled all over Europe, speak German, seen places and been places that many people NEVER see in their lifetime. We prepare ourselves and the girls for moves so that it's an adventure, not a hardship. And we prepare for separations. We spend extra time together, we write letters, we get together with others who are also separated, .....
As for waiting, hubby and I waited until he put on E4. If we had waited until he got out, we'd still be waiting, 19 years later!!Should young military personnel get married while in the military?
I am a military wife. We have 3 kids. Yes there are deployments where we are separated but the Army provides many ways we can communicate (phone, email, letters etc). I personally can't imagine being a civilian wife again-the kids like being army brats too-in fact my 16 year old is joing the Marines whens when he graduates. I can't imagine raising our kids as a civilian family anymore-it is actully easier raising a family while in the military i think.
Currently the military Encourages young military personnel to get married because they get paid more and get better living conditions if they get married.
I think the military should pay single and married Soldiers the same so they can make their own decisions without government intervention.
My husband is a lifer and I can't imagine him never being allowed to marry. We married young but we both knew what we were getting into. He has just returned from a year long deployment; it was challenging but something we voluntarily took on. If people love each other and are COMMITED to be together until death, no matter the circumstances, then military duties, or not they should be allowed to marry.
this is an individual decision
you must weigh pros and cons
it could be the best possible choice, depending on the persons
No the Army has enough things they regulate for soldiers that they can't tell someone to not get married. The soldier should talk with the person he/she is marrying about the hardships they will be facing when they get married.
I would say maybe people should look into it more because sometime soldiers get married for the wrong reasons.
My husband and I were dual military with a child and we had always made the best of the situation. Since I have been out it still isn't that bad.
The military offers alot of support.
It takes a very strong person to be a military spouse. I wouldn't give it up for anything.
My niece is going through that right now.
She was born and raised in So. Cal. Married her HS sweetheart who joined the military and was promptly transferred to a military base back east where we have no family. Once he got on base, he was temporarily transferred for training to a base in the South, leaving my niece by herself in a state where she doesn't know anyone.
And she is the epitome of a spoiled southern California girl who knows very little about the rest of the world.
I think she should have waited to get married until his training was done and impending deployment to Iraq (everyone goes nowadays) was completed.
I have to wonder if she is thinking the same thing now.
Absolutely not.People should get that kind of guidance from their families,pastors,friends,etc...not from an employer and def not from the government.
For the record:
I am an Air Force wife of only 4 years but he's not been deployed yet and we were only separated for basic training and tech school(a few months total).
So if someone's going to be in the military for 20 years, they shouldn't get married til they're 40? That's silly. Marriage is hard, in the military, outside the military.. young people getting married usually is a bad idea, but people are going to do it. There's nothing unfair in families moving, or deployments, etc.. That's just part of the deal. Some people can hack it, some people cannot.
My 22 year old brother eloped this summer as he recognized that he get more rewards for being married than not from housing benefits etc. I doubt they discourage it.
I don't think older military people should get married either...its just not worth it. They can alway adopt kids when they retire.
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)